Is it normal for my fiance get jealous of my friends that are girls?

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I resubmitted because I had a type o. Thanks. My Fiance gets jealous of every relationship I have. I moved to her city because I work from home. She gets jealous of my female employees and friends to the point that we have almost seperated. I have never cheated on any girlfriend ever nor with her, yet she accuses me of sleeping with over 10 girls in 2 years. I work from home she sees me everyday throughout the day. The first was her friend of 10 years that she told me to hire, then the mother of my children and so on. Now she has asked me to take down facebook, I cannot hire any more woman to work for me when I am moving to my new office. Her mother and a male colleague I work with are here and she is still convinced I am having an affair. All the above have relationships. She asking that I do not speak to my friend Lisa of 20 years nor any other girls. She says men that are involved do not call other woman. because I have never lived like this before.Am I being a bad partner by keeping my friends??

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Keep your friends. Tell your fiance to stop being so controlling.

    My husband gets jealous of one of my female friends. He says he doesn't, but he is constantly making snide remarks about rug-munching every time she calls.

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  • flightlesskiwi
    12 years ago

    No, it's really not normal that your fiancee doesn't even want you to hire any women. I wouldn't care if my husband hired women or had female employees because I trust him.

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    12 years ago

    Bitches be crazy

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    • loanmman
      12 years ago

      You made me laugh so loud. Love it. She is very quiet which is making me laugh harder. Thanks

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  • DefinitelyNotNormal89
    12 years ago

    My best friend is male and if his girlfriend asked him to stop speaking to me I honestly would be heartbroken! A 20 year friendship is such a huge thing to throw away for your paranoid fiance.
    If someone accused me of cheating on them all the time I couldn't stay with them, it would just drive me away from them and I'd constantly have to tread carefully in case I said anything to trigger suspicion.
    This is the woman who is meant to make you the happiest and she is putting a huge downer on your life, you really need to talk to her about this before you end up splitting up.

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    • loanmman
      12 years ago

      Thank you you so much great answer and you sealed it for me. I finally after two and a half years of treating her like a queen I laid down the law she is fianlly listening thanks to all the responses.

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  • graphic_nature
    12 years ago

    Do not get married before trust issues are resolved. Also could it be possible that she's projecting cheating actions that she's done on you? Let her know that jealousy means she has no trust in you

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  • xXScYtHeXx
    12 years ago

    She's paranoid and jealous. Crazy girl

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  • pem24
    12 years ago

    She's controlling you. Being a good partner doesn't mean you have to allow her to take control your social life. I think this trust issue has something to do with her past that's making her so paranoid. Maybe she's guarding herself too much from the "unseen" pain by thinking in advance that you may soon cheat on her. So she must be leashing you to prevent you from making her paranoia come true. That's saddening.. You should think over if you would consider proceeding this relationship. Its better to act earlier than file for a divorce.

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