Is it normal for my daughter to buy her sister lingerie?

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I have two daughters, 15 and 19. My younger one turned 15 just a few days ago. I discovered two days later that received a secret gift I didn't know about from her sister. As she was sleeping, I was reading her text messages and saving them to my computer, as I always do to make sure she isn't engaging in atheistic behavior and to keep a record of sins of hers so I know how to improve my parenting and how much help she needs to lead a righteous life. While I was looking through the messages, I saw something that horrified me. My elder daughter sent her the following message: "you're finally at the age where you should start dressing sexy so i got you something you'd like in your exact measurements. enjoy and don't forget to show me how you look in them ;)" When I saw this, I couldn't believe my eyes. But it only got worse. My younger daughter had complied with her request, sending her sister pictures of herself making suggestive poses in several sets of lingerie, including a sheer one, and two sets of stockings. These are NOT appropriate garments for her to be wearing and not appropriate pictures for her to be taking or sending to anyone, let alone her sister. Her sister replied "sexy ;) now go knock their socks off" to which my younger daughter replied "ill knock something off :p ty so much theyre super comfy ill think of sumthing for you next time im over". Now I'm extremely worried that something I don't know about is going on. I'll confront her about it once I can come up with a way to do it without revealing that I read her texts. I learned my lesson the last time I reacted immediately, which almost let her find out how I was learning such things. That's how I decided it was the right response to not stop this evil immediately so I could stop more evil later. I'm also not going to let her meet her sister as often, because I'm worried about what that will make her do. I'm going to talk about it with my pastor and maybe a psychologist. Has anyone else heard of anything else like this? Can anyone give some advice? Christian responses only please.

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  • kelili
    11 years ago | pl

    If you want Christian's answers you should go to your pastor. Ans what is a 'good' christian like you doing on IIN? I'm sure you are reading the dirty stories

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  • Mando
    11 years ago

    Your younger daughter has a sister with whom she can confide and relate as young women. Leave them alone and stop poisoning the well of their womanhood with your cranky kootiness.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    This was almost a good troll but you took it a little too far.

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  • GuessWho
    11 years ago

    I'm pretty sure this is a troll post, but I'll respond in anyway:
    1. Chill out! it's not like she's texting a fuck-buddy. LET HER BE!
    2. I'll be damned if a girl/women can't wear women's underwear...
    3. She only sent the pictures to her sister. If her sister was there, she would see the same thing in greater detail.
    4. Since when can family not see each other in underwear?
    5. Be glad that your daughter cares for her appearance, even if it's something that no-one sees. Besides, doesn't she deserve comfortable underwear; they ARE made to her exact measurements.
    6. I apologise for my use of profanity above, but YOU DESERVE IT FOR ASKING THIS ON THE INTERNET.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    If your serious, you are really messed up. Let your daughter learn for herself. You have no right to snoop through her messages. How would you like it if someone was doing that to you and then confronting you about your business? She's a young girl, let her feel good about herself. You will crush her spirit and make her turn into an arid rotten soul like yourself. I feel sorry for you... Weak child of Christ.

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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    This thread is useless without pics.

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  • Tystick
    11 years ago

    You need to read the Stephen King book "Carrie". Carries mother in the book was a religious nutjob.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    I'm hoping this is a troll. Leave them be and let her learn for herself. Don't bring your religion into it and make them close minded.

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  • Imposturously_yours
    11 years ago

    Of course, you're a troll. But in any case you should grab your stick and beat the fear of Our Lord into that wretched soul. For she is hellbound and needs Salvation. (Just remember not to beat your women with something thicker than your thumb.)

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  • BlondeRedhead
    11 years ago

    I'm, like, 90% sure this is a troll.

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  • fallen2012
    11 years ago

    The more fake overprotective cult like type of "christain" you are the more your children will push away from you. let your kids live and find who they are. if they loose their way with god or whatever, then if its gods will he will help them find him again. If you believe in god then let him make them in his image NOT YOURS!

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  • shelbyissocoollike
    11 years ago

    All i have to say is Trololol.

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  • keeping_up_with_da_kids
    11 years ago

    Just let it slip for now unless she sends pictures to boys or worse other girls *gasp* lesbians lol.

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