Is it normal for my daughter to be obsessed with older men.?
I am a 46 yr old widowed single father. My wife died in 2010 when our daughter was 2.
My daughter is a straight 'A' student whom has never been in trouble in school until last week when she was caught by her school principal performing fellatio on her 40 yr old science teacher after school. Embarrassed and disgusted I asked her why.! She claims he told her that he was going to fail her if she didn't.. I went to the teacher off school grounds to find out what was going on.
The teacher said she was always flashing him, and bending over in front of him to show her lack of panties, and he just couldn't help himself... I asked my daughter about this and she said that she loves older men.
Now I am lost.. What has happened here.. Is this my fault...? Or was my daughter always a slut.
When she was 9 I found her putting her vibrating toothbrush in her vagina and anus...
I asked her why she was doing that, and she said because it feels good..
I am a single father, and I do not want my daughter ridiculed, or harassed, or worse removed from the home, or taken into custody, but I don't know what to do anymore..
I feel defeated and mortified. Thank God we live in a big city, so this likely won't be overly publicized, but embarrassing none the less.
My daughter is a beautiful girl with a brilliant mind and a free spirit to do as she pleases; which I have always encouraged, but maybe that was a mistake.. Idk. I'm absolutely without words, and in fact do not want to see my daughter face to face right now...
Any advice is helpful.