Is it normal for my dad to hit me?

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Ever since I can remember my dad always hits me,we never got on and this doesn't help the moment,this one time I was asking my sister about a game and she was outside so he asked me to close the door and I said 'one minute I need to know how to do it' and he said 'close the f***ing door!', I then said 'wait wait!',he then stormed off his seat slammed the door and hit be across the head,I was then walking on my way out and called him a pyscho,and then hit my even harder and I said stop hitting me and pushed him away,he then pushed me and I tripped and he hit me again,please help sometimes I feel worthles and want to kill myself.

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  • Johnnytherat
    11 years ago

    what you should do is punch him right in the balls every night after he goes to sleep you'll be amazed at the change of attitude in a week... the rat guarantees it ^_-

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  • bumblecreek
    11 years ago

    Does your dad drink? Either way, that's abuse, and you should call the police. He deserves to be locked up for that.

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      Why should he be locked up? It is his own child. He does whatever he wants to him/her.

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      • bumblecreek
        11 years ago

        He should do whatever he wants to her. Hm, so you think it's okay to abuse them, treat them like garbage, and leave them emotionally and physically scarred, just because you can? If that's what you think, then I bet you'll make a great parent..

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      • Iamagirl
        11 years ago

        But she should not be abused like that. It is like slavery with African Americans. Call child abuse. Please your father needs help. Do your siblings get beaten as well?

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        • kittycatrelle
          8 years ago

          She was brought from her native Continent, beaten raped exploited for work? Received nothing in return but societal shame because of skin color?

          Uh no

          Her dad is abusing her outright. You need to get help I know you can do it.

          And everyone else get off the black back we built and carried the ungrateful American society enough.

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          • Iamagirl
            8 years ago

            Yeah I realise that what I said was extremely idiotic. I was two years younger than I am now, I obviously didn't understand how incomparable those two issues were. I apologise if I offended you or anyone else.

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            • kittycatrelle
              8 years ago

              Its all love! Just keep your head up!

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  • miao1994
    11 years ago

    When I was a child and in my early teen years, my dad and my eldest brother (12years older) used to hit me whenever I don't listen to them. and other things about them makes me hate them a lot and they are dead in my eyes. My dad's a irresponsible person and my eldest bro is an arrogant piece of shit. I have no feelings for them that they are my family members and they don't deserve to be in my life. I can somehow feel your pain (physically and emotionally). Trust me, it's your dad's fault for hurting you. You don't deserve to be treated that way. You're not worthless and you still have your future ahead of you. My suggestions for you would be talking to a counselor, or talking to a social worker. You could phone the police if things get out of hand and prepare something to defend yourself from your dad. Phone the police after the incident because you don't wanna your phone to be smashed. Show the police your injuries. If under any circumstances, try to seek help from neighbours if your dad tries to hit you. Also last resort when you have the ability is to move out of the house and get away from him.

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  • Darkoil
    11 years ago

    Grap the nearest serrated knife you can find and slit his throat from ear to ear.

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    • VioletTrees
      11 years ago

      Holy shit.

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      • Darkoil
        11 years ago

        Forget about the consequences for a moment. Which is worse - a full grown man beating his helpless child or a child who decides to take action against this man.

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  • specialchild
    11 years ago

    Sounds like abuse to me. Your dad is not disciplining you. He is beating you. Having said that, I do not think you are improving your situation by calling your dad a "psycho", don't think any angry person, let alone an abusive father would look kindly on that. Also, your dad sounds like a tyrant. Kill him with kindness if you do not have an alternative living situation. Are you 18? You are supposed to be if you signed up for this site. If you are a minor, definitely go to an adult you trust. If you are 18 or older, MOVE OUT! You need to take responsibility for your own actions.

    I had a friend in college who took physical and sexual abuse from her father so he would pay for her college education. Do you want to know how she is doing now? She is in therapy for abuse and did not graduate from college! It is not worth it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    maybe he is a soulless demon and there is no reasoning with him, if this the case keep away from its evil gaze and plan your getaway....if you are caught unawares speak softly and creep out backwards, good luck

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  • iheartu2013
    11 years ago

    Not normal, or okay.

    Are you school age? If so, go to a teacher, your school counselor. Tell them everything. They will help you.

    If you are an adult, cut your contact with him.

    This is abuse, it is not okay. Get help ASAP!

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    You need to tell a trusted figure of authority about this. If you are minor there's a huge risk you'll be put into foster care unless a relative can take care of you.

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  • hannahhgme3
    11 years ago

    My dad has always been that way with me. Same with my mom. I used to think it was normal, but I guess not :/

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    • Orangebean
      11 years ago

      It's not normal for anyone to hit anybody. Especially in the abusive way that yore describing. Tell authorities, and they will take care of the rest.

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  • sweetcheeks21
    11 years ago

    Report the bastard unless you wanna be 6 feet underground, u gotta look out 4 number 1 kid

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  • mezimire
    10 years ago

    that sucks, ive only recieved emotional abuse (and no im not exagerating). but the best thing to do is to go to the authorities, hitting him back will only make it worse and may cost you youre life.

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  • Themaskedman
    11 years ago

    No that's bullshit he shouldn't hit u like that u need to get help from your mother or something

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  • Powwow21
    11 years ago

    You should definitely do something to stop his abusive behaviour towards you. This is not normal nor acceptable. I have been witnessing the same with my father and brother and let me tell you that it didn't end up well. My father was violent with my brother since I can remember and he grew up hating him. Of course now that his grown he didn't want to allow this behaviour towards him anymore. He has tried to stab our father twice. The third time he almost done it but thanks to my mother things didn't end up in disgrace. Unfortunately my brother is in prison now because my father ( the one who beat him up all his life) went to the police and pressed charges against him. His waiting to be judge in court for defending himself from the monster who mistreated him his whole life. Do something to stop this now. Talk to your father, communication is the key to solve problems. ( I'm sorry for my not so good English I am Portuguese)

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  • thumper61
    11 years ago

    i cant say that i was ever got hit bye my father. he was the best dad in the world. tell your dad to go f... him self. call the police he is a asshole.

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  • niggerfaggot
    11 years ago

    He's forced to hit you because you've been very naughty. It's all your fault and you should apologize.

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  • DADNSCAL
    11 years ago

    Not normal, and you need to do something about it. If you're underage, report it by starting with your school counselor, or if you're of age, move out.

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