Is it normal for my boyfriend to use porn rather than want sex with me
My boyfriend of 8 years uses porn, and tells me to get over it when i tell him how upset i feel, he also winds me up to boiling point when hes had a few too many drinks about how much better the pornstars are than me, but cant remember any of this when sober and tries to turn it all around when i confront him, insisting that im making it all up, I know theres better men out there whom would appreciate me, rather than think he can have best of both worlds. I love sex, and am quite a raunchy, decent looking lady. I have other offers of men and turn them down, I do question myself sometimes and think maybe i should take up that offer, every time i find a porn mag, whilst im cleaning, i do also believe that anerexia and weight issues are all down to men like my boyfriend, it wouldnt be so bad if he explained and reassured me of how little these sluts mean to him...but he doesnt...he uses it to put me down, i have a child to look after and withthings like this on my mind, how can i be the better mum/woman/confident and fiesty person i once was...the answer? ...to get rid of him which i have done today, he isnt worth it, but he is a lesson to learn from, just neve get sucked in by his type again, does anyone else have a story similar???