Is it normal for my boyfriend to treat me this way.

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So he came up to my house for a visit he stayed for 5 days and we had a lot of fun there was just a few things he did that i didn't like , like the first time we saw eachother after a year ( we never had sex with eachother) he was coming onto me a lot. He stopped when i told him to but 2 minutes later he would be doing the same thing. This went on for about half an hour Then another day he was trying to sleep and i kept poking him just fooling around. I admit that i did go too far because he was getting angry and i didn't stop but he punched me in the leg it wasn't hard but i know it was out of anger... and just other little things he has done like he would tell me to change my clothes because he is bored of my style and if i get upset he wouldn't really care that much. He makes fun of my religion and so on...

On the other hand he can be very caring and sweet. I don't think he would ever cheat on me and he is always giving me massages if my back hurts or whatever..

So what i want to know is is it normal for a guy to treat a girl like this.. and is it normal for a girl to stay with a guy who treats a girl like this? and is it worth breakig up with him for it?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Hmm just like every humanbeing he has his happy side and his angry side. He did tell you to stop pestering him but you wouldnt listen considering he gave you a light punch on the leg shows that he was holding his anger back and just wanted you to stop pestering him while he slept. Maybe his views on religion is different if not then maybe he isnt interested because he has already looked your religion beliefs up. The clothes style is something he has no right to say unless you yourself have asked him to do something similar. Maybe he has a flirty attitude alot of people have it or it could be he is just being playful and you are the only one seeing the flirty side to it.
    I would say its pretty normal though.

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  • UliNalaMansae
    12 years ago

    if he asks you to change for him, tell him he's supposed to love you. otherwise hes manipulating you and thats mean.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Are you really letting random strangers decide whether the guy is your soulmate?

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  • Chatterbox123hi
    13 years ago

    hmmmm... him telling you to 'change' your clothes demostrates that he does not like you for WHO YOU ARE. Yes, everyone has a good/sweet side and bad side, but its different when someone is wanting to change you. I know it might be easier for us to say yeah leave him bla bla bla. But in the end, the decision is yours, and you do deserve so much better. Always remember that hun!

    Good luck!

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  • RentingEmotion
    13 years ago

    Aha I'm a scorpio, and I'm not bi-polar...

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    13 years ago

    Is he a scorpio?

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  • dafattyfat
    13 years ago

    On the other hand he can be very caring and sweet. I don't think he would ever cheat on me and he is always giving me massages if my back hurts or whatever..

    So are some abusers, called keeping them sweet ;D

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    I wanna advice him to leave you.

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