Is it normal for my boyfriend to start acting different and distant?
He used to be really affectionate and sometimes even borderline possessive. I had briefly tried drinking before our relationship and had made some mistakes (drunkenly made out some guys my first month of college). And when we got together this was a very difficult idea for him to accept, even though it was in my past. He used to cry when I didn't answer him right away, want to talk to me all the time, and look at me and treat me like I was the most valuable thing on earth. He was fervently against any type of drinking. I began changing too, I stopped hanging out with my friends, began to think like him and became completely devoted and in love with him. However, over a year and half later he is starting to become distant. He has gone out with the boys and gotten drunk, sometimes goes days with out calling, is not jealous, and doesn't say romantic things anymore. I talked to him about it and expressed how it was making me feel. ( I've been a wreck lately). And he said he is confused and he still loves me the same, but doesn't know why he's acting like that or what changed. He is completely calm and even cracks jokes when I am crying to him talking about this. I dont know what to do... Is this normal behavior or should I be concerned? I might have been okay with this had this been a year ago, but the drastic change has left me concerned.