Is it normal for my boyfriend to refuse answering questions?

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So, my boyfriend can make a real big fuss about not wanting to answer a question. And these are like simple questions. Like: Did something fun happen during class today? Or just recently he said he had a heated discussion for two hours and I asked about what and he didn't want to answer because some things he needs to have for himself. Uhm, I certainly don't think those are hard questions to answer (the answer to the latter one was that it was a discussion about moral) and he shouldn't make a big fuss about it, so I ask: Is it normal?

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  • BlkBrd
    12 years ago

    I have this issue with my current boyfriend. It's less that he doesn't answer questions, but more that he doesn't elaborate on his answers. It definately puts a strain in the relationship. You shouldn't have to feel as if he's hiding something from you. Especially if it's stupid, little things. Makes you consider what, on a larger scale, you don't know about.

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  • vnderbnder
    12 years ago

    well maybe he is so dumb the questions you are asking him are like quantum physics questions to a 3 year old.

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  • hemper
    12 years ago

    Communication if key to a healthy relationship.

    like many a philosophers/psychologist (Soren Kierkegard comes to mind immediately) it is what's not said that is most important...

    and it could also depends on if he's like this for all topics or perhaps just the odd questions here and there.

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  • noid
    10 years ago

    Some people are just more private. I am this way. I don't like to share something unless I think the other person will understand, agree, or relate to it.

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