Is it normal for my boyfriend to perform autofellatio?
I left recently to go to another state for a month for Christmas break. My boyfriend and I are both sophomores in college. I asked my boyfriend [when I got back, and we were in bed together] if he had masturbated and he said no. I believed him.
That was over a month ago.
Last night we were in bed talking about weird things we masturbate to and he admitted to me that he HAD masturbated while I was gone on break. He said, "Well, you're gonna think I'm gay or something...I really don't want to tell you." I said, "I'm not gonna judge you! Tell me what you did!" So he said that he put his legs up against the wall and bent upwards and put him mouth around the head of his penis and sucked himself off. He said he came in his mouth and drank it and that he liked it. At first, I thought it was hot that he could do this.
...But then he told me he did it two more times, yet this time he didn't drink his semen. So I said, "Oh...I didn't know that you did it more than once..." I asked him WHY he did it, and he said, "I was just horny and I wanted to see what it was like from your [me, I'm his girlfriend lol] perspective to have to suck me off. I liked it. I only did it three times though, the first time when you were gone and the other two times were on the same day, like on the weekend [when I was back from break]."
I'm wondering if my boyfriend is all-man, so to speak. Like is he a gay guy, or bisexual possibly? Leave comments to let me know. I'd also like to know if you think this behavior is normal of a STRAIGHT man, or if you think he might have some "tendencies"....
I just feel very hurt and insecure about my sexual capabilities now. I told him this and he says I'm a great lover, but again, he LIES ALL THE TIME. So I really don't believe it when he says all those nice things to me. :/