Is it normal for my boyfriend to look at girls on facebook?

Okay. So I have been with this guy for a year and 2 days. It started off perfect, love at first sight. Now, he is always looking and other girls asses when we are in the mall and other places. I started out saying "it's just a guy thing" but I told him that it bothered me a lot, I am a very insecure person and suffer form depression so it just makes it worse. and I hate myself more and more. But yeah I talked to him about it and it's gotten better in public but he does the same thing on facebook. I go threw his history just to see if he stopped and of course he didn't. I don't mind the celebrities but the girls who live in our town who he looks threw their photos everyday bothers me a ton. Like for example, there was a girl he almost dated instead of me then he chose me instead and he blocked her because she makes me uncomfortable. But he finds girls who are friends with her and looks at her there. And the only girls he looks at are those he has liked, dated, or kissed and stuff. He says " I don't know why I do it" and "Ill stop" But it hurts when I see this. Especially since we are in a serious relationship an live together at only 18 because he got kicked out. What should I do? :/ Is it normal?

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45% Normal
Based on 74 votes (33 yes)
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Comments ( 10 )
  • DangerousPotatoGuy

    Quick question, why did you throw his history?

    Anyway, ask him how he feels if you go out talking with other guys.

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  • handsignals

    Facebook sluts, it's just another form of porn, don't worry about it.

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  • If I had an insecure jealous girlfriend I would be long gone so be glad that he's only looking at internet pics.

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  • megadriver

    Come on... Really, the facebook girl-picture thing?!
    Guy's just looking at pictures. It's not like he is sleeping with all of those facebook girls. This is a guy thing.

    I do this too from time to time. I love my girlfriend, but it's a guy thing to look at girls. It's not like you women don't watch other guys... Get over it. It's nothing.

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  • Guys will be guys, we're very visual creatures. There's going to be people he finds visually pleasing, and if he picked you over one of them, then I don't think you have anything to worry about.

    It kind of reminds me of Bill Maher saying guys only care about old and new in his stand up comedy act. Perhaps do something that makes you more visually appealing that the rest?

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  • Tobiasbeecher

    It is ok as long as they are pictures of his sister in a bikini

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  • My02cents

    MissBlondie,
    Why do you give this girl advice when you are in the same situation and not prepared to follow your own advice ?

    Just wondering.

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  • MissBlondie

    Your boyfriend shouldn't be doing this if he knows it hurts you. especially when you've told him you don't like it. it makes it worse he is going behind your back and doing it online. my boyfriend is the same. in fact, worst! if you can find the strength, you should leave. its nt what you want to hear but I bet theres someone out there who will treat you a hell of a lot better than him!

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  • ants91shearer

    hes just investigating, like me

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  • shuggy-chan

    im just looking on Fabbook, geez woman

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