Is it normal for my boyfriend to laugh at me when i want to have sex?

I would definately be upset if I were you. My friend used to have a guy just like this. He was so into t.v., hanging with his boys and video games. funny thing is, he would lie to his boys because they wanted to know about them having sex (in guy conversations, you know nothing serious). We would all be hanging out and one of their parties and he would act like he was a pimp but my poor girl was like: he doesn't do anything! she claimed her guy turned out to be just awkward about sex and uncomfortable with himself as she sat down and talked to him about it. She said he didn't say much but that's what she got from it and the relationship as a whole anyway. She seemed to be working a bit more on it but eventually they broke up. I mean can you blame her? She's pretty and fun and has a sexual appetite which is so normal. She did what she had to and so should you.

Dump the bum! He should be paying attention to his girlfriend and not his video games. Get rid of the lazy asshole and find someone else who appreciates you.

Guys don't like it when you're TRYING to be sexy. And by the looks of it, seems like you're going way overboard if he's actually laughing at you.

Even just smiling can be sexy.
Stop trying and focus on yourself and see if he turns around, or maybe a better guy will take notice... Just stop trying.

When something like this was happening to a couple i know the wife cut the power cord and threw the one month old PS3 into a pile of snow. Something to think about.

he just isnt ready. probally nervas becuase it might be his first time. or what he said about hes gay

maybe he is gay?

Thank-you all for your helpful comments. I found out that...of course, my boyfriend was cheating on me.. I'm sad to have been part of so many lies. But I'm glad its over and I can move on.

Dump him. It's possible he has a low testosterone level like many males these days from environmental toxins, but for him to laugh at you is too much. You don't need that shit. Dump him and move on, no matter how much it hurts.

I'm a guy and the reason I avoid having sex with my GF is because of her smelly vagina. It just makes me want to hurl everywhere. The thing is she has absolutely no idea and probably just thinks I'm not into sex anymore. Even if she sorted out her problem downstairs, I still don't know if I'd be able to handle it. It's like getting a kebab from the KebabKing, only to end up blowing chunks into the toilet because the lamb was off. It's gonna be a while before you visit THAT shop again. I'm the randiest fucker I know and this just tears me up.
Not saying this is the case with you but maybe there is a reason you have not thought of? Or maybe he's just a limp dick... who knows...
Shit. Sorry, I just realised I don't actually have any advice to give you. I don't know. I guess just ask him why he doesn't give you the sweet lovin' you deserve, and if he can't answer truthfully, breakup. Better for you and for him.

hm thats very strange i guess it depends on how long you have been together maybe he has something to hide for example my friends boyfriend avoided it to and when she insisted he didn't have anything and was pretending to be a guy. This is actually very common in society today....like you said guys normally are all for sex you might have to have a more aggressive approach or sit down and talk to him about it

The day a man doesn't want to have sex is the day hell freezes over.
He wants to have sex, just not with you.

Pussy should never be neglected. It should be a crime. Just tell him to bend u over and fuck u while he is playing his game lol. I was playing call of duty and my ex just pulled my shorts off and started going to town in the middle of the game. It was fucking awesome.

Dump him and hook up with me, i'll never turn you down :)

My fiance done the same thing and I finally just broke down cried and looked like a big baby and asked him who the fuck he was cheating on me with... turned out that he wasnt cheating at all LOL... he had actually turned his life over to God (his dad's a preacher and they had been talking a lot) and didnt want to mess around until we got married and was afraid to talk to me about it because he didnt want me to think he was judging me because I am a MAJOR backslidder and I am over reactive to say the least ... so maybe you should just be upfront with him and tell him how you feel and see what he says.

chain him to the bed and make him scream! run your tongue up and down his legs and then if he laughs at you, get up and walk away, leaving him in chains. go get a cup of coffee or something, come back, and make hot love to him for the rest of the day

no its normal and its really fishy. he could be gay and is probably getting it from someone else. but more importantly he is an asshole and if he is to selfish to please his woman he needs to get the fuck out. throw him out/fuck someone else. its actually really easy. and when he begs you or throws a fit tell him no and laugh at him.

laughing at you and not having sex at all? hm .. sounds like he's to lazy or he doesn't wanna have sex with you or maybe he's doing a test to see if you can take over him .. like if you can like take advantage of his controls and just say "i got all the control now .. whatcha gonna do now?" :)

oh god, i have the SAME problem! it's so annoying. i'm like wtf!!! i feel so desperate and gross all the time. ugh. why are our guys so lame like that!?

My ex was too lazy and obsessed with video games to have sex, too. I swear if it weren't for me, he would have been fine being abstinent. But he freaked out if I even spoke to another guy. He thought I wanted to nail everyone I talked to. And he was right, so I broke up with him.

dude as much as i love video games aint no way in hell im pickin up the sticks over some sexy time w my women ladies. hes gay. plain and simple. ur man is playin for visitor honey.

He is probity cheating on you. Or just doesn't have a normal sex drive. Some people are A-sexual and find no one sexually attractive.

Obsessed with videogames? What guy would avoid sex for computer time or videogames? WTF is his problem? Your guy is a nerd. He is probably asexual.

If you're as ugly as I imagine you to be (and that's pretty fucking ugly) then it is completely normal.

No one wants to bone a dog babe.

HAHA wait i also have to laugh
well he is stupid but...thats funny x'D

He's a fag

Well I'm tempted to ask what his problem is, but I guess you mainly have to reassess this relationship altogether if he is just not interested.