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My boyfriend and I had wonderful sex, maybe the best we have had. We gave each other full body massages. I had to leave at midnight. He said he was going to bed. Then he went out to the bars, and stayed out until 4:00 AM. I feel like I can't satisfy him. Is this normal or should I dump him?
He is out celebrating the sex he just had. Or he's out getting more sex......sorry.
It's normal. There's nothing about that implies that he's cheating. I will never understand why women get upset about this sort of stuff. I go to the bar frequently too. It's not just about trying to pick up girls. I also go for casual socialization, play pool, karaoke, find a party, and of course to get drunk.
Please, leave the guy alone. Men do this. We do all kinds of stuff women think is somehow insensitive or dismissive.
But know what? We don't really think that much. We just do things. We don't think 'I'll be insensitive.' We don't think 'This sends a message.'
So don't you wonderful women over think us.