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My boyfriend and I are experimenting a little in bed. We made our way to trying anal. I have fingered myself a couple of times and I've enjoyed it. So when he tried, it hurt me when he entered and I felt him go in and out but he says that he feels nothing? Is it normal for him to feel nothing at all?
for you I'd recommend using heaps more lube and getting him to enter slower (also preparation with fingers and small dildo's can help). As for him, he may be more into it if he sees that you're enjoying it. Or he just may not like it.
I know when my BF and I tried it that he moved so slowly for fear of hurting me that neither of us could get off :/
After putting only the tip of his lubed up finger into your anus, he should pause for a few seconds until he feels your anus relax. I was reading on the internet that doctors do it this way. They also use KY jelly on their latex glove.
maybe he's just not into anal?
i mean he probably feels the pressure but it does nothing for him sexually.
and if he knows it's hurting you that may put a damper on his own sexual pleasure too.
So by him not actually being into it it crashes his own sex drive? Hmm... I've never thought of it that way before. Its just with him saying that it makes me question if there is something wrong with me:-/
why does it have to mean that?
It's like ice cream - some people like vanilla, some like chocolate, and some like strawberry. (or other flavors too)
just because vanilla does nothing for you doesn't mean that there's something wrong with someone who loves it.
it just means there's different tastes.