Is it normal for my boyfriend to do this?what do i do?

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Ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year & a half (as of july). Its summer vacation obviously, and I've seen him about 3 times. I've been dying to see him cause its almost been 2 weeks, We were gonna hangout last friday & sunday ,but friday he blew me off for his cousin,which is cool I guess & sunday he wanted me to spend time with my family. The friday before we were gonna hangout, we still did, but one of our friends came along & I only got to see him for a few hours.
Tomarrow we were supposed to hang out but guess what? He's hanging out with his cousin. Who was at his house for 4 DAYS last week.Ya, I'm kinda ticked. The thing is I wouldn't care if we had more opportunites to hangout, but we're both busy with stuff (not gonna get into it). & last summer I didn't see him ONCE, I really don't want that to start again. I know he loves me, but what am I supposed to do? I don't wanna get mad & seem like a clingy girlfriend, but at the same time I wanna spend time with him. & I forgot to add this to my title but why is he doing this? Am I doing something wrong? Or is it just a normal guy thing? (he's my first boyfriend, I wasn't interested in dating before really).

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  • dappled
    12 years ago

    What you want doesn't sound clingy. It sounds normal. But the only person who knows why he's avoiding seeing you is him. You need to speak to him about this.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    U spelled tommorrow wrong :)

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    • robbieforgotpw
      10 years ago

      So did you

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  • Luker
    12 years ago

    I'm so pissed I read all that. Get a life.

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  • Daydreamer63
    12 years ago

    Tell him! your not clingy if you want to see him and havent seen him in 2 weeks. just be like hey i havent seen you like all summer why dont you want to hang out with me?

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  • istrawberry
    12 years ago

    Sadly, that is so true. You shouldn't let him treat you that way, seriously. Just dump his ass. No girl deserves to be treated that way.

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  • lalas
    12 years ago

    He doesn't put you first he doesn't love you .

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    He sounds a little bit young and immature to be a great boyfriend, but I am sure a BJ or two would bring him right around and keep his desire to be close to you!

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  • dom180
    12 years ago

    You've just gotta ask him. He probably has a perfectly good reason for not being able to spend much time with you.

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  • TyLee
    12 years ago

    No not normal. He doesn't love you if he is acting like that. It's time for you to break up with him!!!

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  • xstarbugyx
    12 years ago

    He doesn't want a gf in summer he wants to be free n have fun prob with other girls. Then when winter n the boring seasons come he will take ur sorry ass Back

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