Is it normal for my boyfriend to do this?

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After a year ivefound out my boyfriend watches porn... I know all lads do it... but it is bugging me, another thing that bugs me is that he lied he said no no and no when I asked but I knew he was lying.

Honestly it has hurt me, maybe I’m being selfish but he lied and I feel I’m not good enough that he has to watch that stuff.

I’m quite a shy girl so I’m not really into all that stuff.

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  • Clunk42
    3 years ago

    Him lying: not normal. Everything else about this situation: sadly normal.

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  • WhySoSad
    3 years ago

    I personally dont mind him doing so, but he usually just jerks off to pictures of me, but its normal for dudes to watch porn, dont mind it.

    Him lying is rather unusual, you really should adress this, and ask, communication is key, Im telling you.

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  • Diaperdean
    3 years ago

    Unfortunately, it's more normal than you think! He looks at porn because that's what guys do and it's just a click away!!

    Then he lies because he's embarrassed. There are a couple of things you could do

    #1. Make a porn video with him and let him watch that!! That could actually be fun for both of you.

    #2. Watch porn with him and you guys can play with each other while you watch it and have sex afterwards. Who knows? You might get into it.

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  • FromTheSouthWeirdMan
    3 years ago

    You should be more upset with him lying than watching porn. If he feels the need to lie about something like that maybe you are too clingy and jealous or he is untrustworthy

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  • KholatKhult
    3 years ago

    His lying is the major issue.

    Society has become so over-sexed that some men have tried to convince the world that staring down another women’s cunt is normal. In no way is it, it’s blatant cheating if the other partner isn’t okay with it.

    Porn is a poor habit, he would do well to break it. You should talk to him and confront him of his lie.

    There is absolutely nothing selfish about not wanting your partner to get sexual gratification from another person. Porn doesn’t get a “free pass” from this.

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  • Mammal-lover
    3 years ago

    He probably lied cause he didnt want you to get insecure wich is rubbish. Guys are visual creatures its normal. That's why it feels so good to make yourself look sexy for your man

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    • KholatKhult
      3 years ago

      Bad response Mammal boooo

      OP has been lied to which is wrong, you making false claims about men is wrong, and trying to shame her for not wanting her ma to look at other women is wrong.

      Don’t blame her for his lies.

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      • Mammal-lover
        3 years ago

        Oh boy I gave the wrong impression here. I don't condone lieing period I just ment that's probably why he did.

        Nor do I think people should be upset about there partner looking at others. At the end if the day hes sharing your bed, telling you he loved you. Exposing his heart, his hurts his everything. Not that random chick he checked out for 10 seconds and will forget shortly later.

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  • --
    3 years ago

    You are going to have to get used of the fact that your guy is going to watch porn, its life. Don't worry though it is not a gateway to cheating or hints in anyway that he will cheat.

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  • cicoleo
    3 years ago

    It is perfectly normal for him to watch it, and it's normal/common for you to be bugged about it (rationally you have no reason tho). also i'd say it was pretty expectable from him to not tell you about it, but still he should have been honest if you want the fairest thing.

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  • litelander8
    3 years ago

    I’m a chick and I watch porn. I’m in a relationship and my man knows I watch porn. It’s just porn. Unless he’s looking at some crazy shit.

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