Is it normal for my boyfriend to do these things?

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Ok so my boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months, living together for 5. We moved quick in our relationship. Im 22 and he'll be 27 soon. He has two kids with different mothers, I have none. I cant have any actually....anyway thats a little background on us.

My question is it normal for him to do any of the following.

He makes jokes a lot about sleeping with other women and gets mad when I get mad about him doing it. He tells me and his family he hates his youngest childs mothers all the time but everytime I turn around they are budd buddy and are extra friendly for him to be hating her. Not saying I want him to hate her, but he tells me he does and thn she calls him askin for milkshakes. I feel like if it isnt about his child she shouldnt call. He also deletes tetx messages too and from her. I dont want him to hate her and I think they should get along as thy have a child....but I feel the buck stops there...there should be no hanging out or any of that. Am I wrong? And he has admitted to me that he slept with her around the time we first got together. She always facebooks me and says she sleeps with him too....its confusing.

Also I have caught my boyfriend texting females saying he wants ti sleep with them and perform oral sex on them. He says I shouldnt be mad because he didnt go through with it and I shouldnt have looked in his phone anyway...Idk, is this normal? This is my first real relationship and first time dealing with any of this.

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  • Jbabe
    11 years ago

    Dump his sorry ass. Obviously he doesn't respect you, and just wants to see how much he can get away with.

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  • babaG
    12 years ago

    He's playing you.

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  • keyzali
    13 years ago

    Leave him I've been there and learned one thing: that no matter what a person is gonna still mess around with their Childs other parent -_-

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  • Ms.Caffinated
    13 years ago

    NO THATS NOT NORMAL!! Take away his phone or something! He sounds like a straight up cheater, If this is your first relationship than you'll naturally want to make it work, but you need to know where to draw the line. The ex/baby mama will always be in the lives of the dad, and they will automatically assume since they had already slept together before, where would be the harm in doing it whenever they felt like it? And About him texting other girls, You have a RIGHT too look through his phone if you suspect him cheating on you, don't let him turn around the situation to make YOU the bad guy, because he sounds manipulative. It doesn't matter if he never gets to follow through with it, because bottom line:He is trying. You have got to find a better man then this, if this is what he's offering you, can you imagine getting pregnant before you have a chance to get away? Then down the road when your sick of all his bullshit, no matter what you will always be in each others lives because of that child. You are young, and there are better catches out there. Don't be blinded by love. But whether you listen to me is up to you.

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