Is it normal for my boyfriend to be so rough?

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my boyfriend is really rough with me, i don't know how much experience he has with girls but i know that he has had a lot of relationships, though i don't know how long they have lasted. he is my first real boyfriend and we have been going out for over 3 months. every time i come back from his, when i get home i always have some sort of bruise, red mark or cut/graze, however i don't tell him or anyone. i want to know if this is normal, signs of aggression, playfulness or he just doesn't know his own strength. (btw he has ADHD).

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  • (s)aint
    8 years ago

    When is he rough? In the bed? If you don't like it, tell him! He is not a mind-reader.

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  • BlackyHancock
    8 years ago

    You have to tell the dude to cut the roughness, or no sex. Some girls like it that way, but you dont have to like it.

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  • theseeker
    8 years ago

    No, it's not normal. Based on what you've said here, I would assume he's a D-bag, or maybe it's just me. Whatever the case, be cautious. Who knows what this could turn into.

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  • Rooster5976
    8 years ago

    It depends if he is just playing a game and it gets rough or if he gets mad and hits you. Some boys get a bit too into games

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Dump him!

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  • Confused_123
    8 years ago

    I also have adhd and I am also aggressive but I don't hit my boyfriend and he has adhd also but the most he has ever done was a little nudge in the face or pushed me really hard on to the bed

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  • Nokiot9
    8 years ago

    Yeah... Douche bag, all the way. But it's just as much your fault for not saying something to him, at this point. How's he gonna change his behavior if he doesn't even know he's doing it?

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