Is it normal for my boyfriend to be so open?

77% Normal
15 Comments

My boyfriend gives me his facebook password, let's me go through his messages and phone with no questions asked even if he does talk to girls. Mind you it's never flirting just a 'hello how are you?' kind of messages. If a girl hits him up or flirts with him, he automatically tells me, even if they are extremely attractive. is it normal for him to be so open? What do you think about this?

Voting Results
77% Normal
Based on 74 votes (57 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 15 )
  • bittersweet21
    12 years ago

    It's not normal for him to be so open! (in my opinion) cuz alot of guys shut you out to hide something. Which means you have a One of a kind guy. Very special thing to have a guy so honest and open. Your very lucky so don't let him go! ;-)

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    3
    3
  • alv1592
    12 years ago

    Honesty is an important thing in a relationship. And he's not hiding anything from you, so you know he's not cheating.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • Pisslan616
    12 years ago

    He must trust you a lot.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    It's not what you know you should worry about, it's what you don't know ;)

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • fluffycloud101
    12 years ago

    I think it's awesome that he is so open with u it's hard to find guys that are that open i say keep him girl u prob won't find another guy that is willing to do that

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • girrrl
    12 years ago

    I am so jealous.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • FocoUS
    12 years ago

    It's not normal to give your password to anyone! Tell him that.

    As for the phone and messaging, he might've dated a girl that was a control freak before you. Honestly this openness seems abnormal to me... but I don't find anything wrong about it.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
      -
    • Conchita863
      12 years ago

      Thats what I thought to, but I was curious about his past relationships so I asked and they all just seemed to be a 3 month little fling that meant nothing really, so I'm not entirely sure. I mean I am grateful he's so open considering I have MAJOR trust issues, maybe he's just trying to help me fix them?

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      -1
      -1
  • fullhouse
    11 years ago

    I tell my gf everything and I've told my passwords to her without her asking.. Trust is the central thing in a relationship for me.. although she hasn't done the same for me but I don't except a tit for tat response from her.. I like her to know everything about me.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    he is doing it to be honest with you

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • 41ph4m413
    12 years ago

    Your boyfriend is a wuss.

    And just because he says you can look through his private stuff doesn't mean you should.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    -1
    -1
      -
    • Conchita863
      12 years ago

      You must be a dude.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
  • Picasso
    12 years ago

    If you were MARRIED, I could see all this openness as appropriate but he's just your boyfriend. I'm not saying you both should have harmful secrets from each other but you should still have your own lives and you should disclose whatever you feel is necessary WHEN it's necessary. EVERYTHING... ALL THE TIME... is not necessary.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    -2
    -2
      -
    • Conchita863
      12 years ago

      I completely understand where you're coming from. I have secrets too, and I'm sure he does. Except that they're probably important ones that SHOULD be kept secret and to himself, that I completely understand, but things on facebook and his phone, honestly I think it's not too big of a deal. I asked about it, because NO guy I have ever known has done this and I'm sort of shocked.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
        -
      • Picasso
        12 years ago

        I would be shocked too. I've never heard of anyone being that way. If a girlfriend were that "open" with me, it would bother me a lot because it's not what you CAN see that you need to be concerned about, if at all. This imitation impression that there are no boundaries regarding privacy could just be a facade to cover something up. But who knows? That's a rather cynical approach. Realistic too, perhaps. But who knows? I'm not in the relationship. I just see what I see.

        Comment Hidden ( show )
        0
        0