Is it normal for my boyfriend to be gentle during sex?

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My boyfriend is very gentle, and during sex it's like he's afraid of using his dick. I'm not asking for really hardcore rough sex but he always makes me cum but almost never comes himself because he's so careful and doesn't focus on making himself feel good. His ex was really bitchy and complained that he hurt her a lot and I think that's why he's so careful. Everytime I make any noise besides a moan he stops and asks if I'm okay, and even when I tell him I can take it he is still nervous in bed. IIN?

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  • Mrsk
    6 years ago

    Get on top and fuck that man show him a little passion isn't gonna hurt you

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  • ianik777
    6 years ago

    What can i tell, he loves you and trying to care of you as much as he can.

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  • Knightmare
    6 years ago

    I'm thinking that he's so careful mainly for you, he cares more about your pleasure than his own, and that actually means he really cares for you. He's said it himself that he's worried about hurting you.

    Talk to him about it, sometime when you're not doing that. Tell him that you appreciate it, but also tell him everything you've said here. Explain that you think that he's holding back too much for his own good, that he can relax a little. That you can take it. Thank him for showing so much love for you, let him know that you're there for him just as much as he is for you.

    I haven't done it with anyone yet, but I've been thinking that I might wind up doing the same thing as him, focusing on her happiness more than my own. I had some issues with pornography (who HASN'T gotten into porn) and whenever I imagine how a relationship would play out I worry that I'd do it like how I'd seen it unless I was really careful. And you hear all the time about porn actors being really abused and all that...

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    what is not normal is you dont suck him off he never cums himself and you dont give a shit. i see a big problem in your relationship and you have the biggest issue. what is not normal is you go slumming for advice instead of asking Mr.Penis to dig a little deeper. So here is my advice , if you dont want him thinking you are terrible in the bed , you better get him off every single time. I can't help but notice he gets the job done for you but you still complain , thats says volumes about his effective penis now let's talk about you sexual dysfunction that won't allow you to get the dude off. It's the classical case of its all his fault isnt it. he will be pleasing someone else in no time honey.

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