Is it normal for my boyfriend to avoid me

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Ok so i'm a little new to the whole dating thing... Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a month! Hes my first boyfriend and im his first girlfriend. And i know that hes a little nervous but when he took me to the movies he said about 3 words to me the whole nignt and since then he hasnt talked to me at all not a call text email or anything and its been about 2 weeks... Is it normal or is he avoiding me... Should i break up with him??

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Based on 52 votes (15 yes)
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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    He's just not that into you.

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    • davesumba
      11 years ago

      ^this. and don't try to make something of nothing, move on. unless he is just shy/nervous and doesn't know how a relationship works, or is too young to fully grasp the concept and just wants the sex.
      but either way, if u really wanted to see if it could work then try to make him feel extra comfortable with you, be real nice and friendly and talk to him, ask him about himself, he probably just doesn't know what to say.

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  • lc1988
    11 years ago

    maybe you could've text or called him? Did you say thank you after the movie if he paid?

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  • ygrowup
    11 years ago

    Just a young immature relationship, give him a nudge and help him mature the way that he needs to be. It's hard even chatting at first for some, so lead him a little!

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    11 years ago

    If he hasn't called you in two weeks, maybe the relationship was already doomed from the start. Dump him.

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  • Unimportant
    11 years ago

    Two weeks? Maybe he's dead. Just a thought.

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    • DaemonWolf
      11 years ago

      If he's not dead then he's a bit of a jerk and you'll wish he was dead.. vicious circle.

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  • heart_keeper
    11 years ago

    Totally awkward! he dumped you in a weird way because he just didn't tell you sorry. Dating is always weird in the beginning all these hormones floating around. In middle school my first boyfriend asked me out thru some random kid who came up to me and said "that kid thinks your cute do you want to be his girlfriend" and I said yes haha it lasted like 2 days. Goodluck

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  • 1-Up
    11 years ago

    It's over just move on

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Dump him?? Umm... Heloooo!!! He already dumped you!

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Obviously too young for boys and this site. Go outside and play like you should be doing.

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  • Kels-Bugg
    11 years ago

    Try talking to him, maybe tell him how you feel?
    try an work things out before you give up! But if he doesnt wanna work things out then the best thing is too probably break it off.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    My boyfriensd barely said a word to me on our 1st date, but he was just shy. 2 weeks is a long time though, mayeb you should contact him? It seems a little odd, so maybe you should get to the bottom of it?

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  • buttons
    11 years ago

    It depends if you are okay with it. Essentially, there is nothing wrong with how he acts, but if you don't like it, the relationship won't magically turn into something that will make you happy. Listen to your heart :) and move on if needed.

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    Young love, there is no norms when it comes to that. Did you try calling him?

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  • Ixu
    11 years ago

    Just pretend it never happened. You guys aren't in a relationship, you were merely experimenting and the outcome was negative. Forget about it

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  • armadiller42
    11 years ago

    Did you suddenly gain weight?

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