Is it normal for my boyfriend to always ask me if i liked it?

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Everytime me and my bf have sex he always asks me to tell him whether I liked it or not after we are done.
Like: did you enjoy it?
Did you liked it when.... ?
How many times did you orgasm?
Did it get on your nerves when I licked and sucked on your ear?
I always reply: Yes I liked it. But I find it awkward to talk about it.
Then he asks me to give him a grade from one to ten.
Like: how good was I on a scale from one to ten?

Is this normal?

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    if you're not comfortable telling him what you like and dislike about sex.... you may not be ready for an adult relationship.

    it's FINE to tell your partner what you like, dislike, what you never want to try, and what don't want to do - but will try if he wants it.

    He may also just need reassurance that he's good. Perhaps he doesn't know how your body reacts to pleasure. try studying each other's bodies as you reach climax. see what changes take place.

    then you may find out that your partner, instead of asking you if you like it... says "ahhh there you go" when he sees how hard you climax

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    • Alison89
      12 years ago

      Yeah, it sounds like someone who could use an ego boost. If it was me, before he had a chance to ask, I'd start rating him. "That think with the biting? That was a zero. The other thing with the licking, that was a 10. As for all that in the middle, I'm not even sure I know what that was. Did you need me here for that?"

      Okay, I might not be that direct, but I'd throw something out there.

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
        12 years ago

        well i wouldn't say "zero" but just say... "that doesn't do much for me"

        i mean you don't want to destroy his ego

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I was a bit meh, till I saw the scale thing and that is not normal. It's not a test, it's meant to be something you share together without fear or expectation (or much of it).

    I could not date a guy like that ever.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    12 years ago

    No worry, lsd already took care of the ego matter.

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