Is it normal for my boyfriend sleepover with my friends without me?

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My friends include my two best friends, a boy and a girl. Usually, my friend who is a girl also has HER boyfriend stay the night with them as well. My guy friend has a girlfriend who lives in another state. So, it's not like my boyfriend has sleepovers with a bunch of girls or something...This is more of my friends and boyfriend sort of excluding me. I was their friend before he became their friend too. They just never invite me anymore, usually because they know I'm busy and I'm the only one who has school. But...Is it normal for my boyfriend to be, in a way, taking my place in my friend group? Or am I just overreacting?

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    I'd feel jelous to. It sucks, but is also a good thing. It's even worse when you have a boyfriend that none of your friends like.. If you're free and they invite him over than say you want to come. And ask why you weren't invited to...

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  • dirtybirdy
    11 years ago

    You're being crazy. If you know you wouldn't have been able to go anyway then you aren't exactly being excluded. And who cares if they were your friends first. That bugs the crap out of me when people are like that. And plus couples don't always have to do everything together. Sheesh. Why don't people understand that?!?!?!?!?!?!

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  • Ryan555
    11 years ago

    So if I date u I can't have friend and party's in the park with well mostly girls ya my last gf didn't like that let your guy have fun

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    That's not normal.

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  • DameInDistress
    11 years ago

    Tbh, I think that's quite ignorant of them. I can only assume this, but reading what you've written, you're a group of friends. Leaving you out was unfair!

    If I was you, I'd broach him on the subject. =)

    N. x

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  • Jennys77
    11 years ago

    I think if he loved you he wouldn't go hangout with your girlfriends and would like you hanging out with their bf's?y close friends would never do that to me and I would never go hang out with my mans buddies if he was unable to go. It's a respectful thing to do. He needs his own friends to. Not saying he can't be friends with them but, without you a lot is just rude of all of them.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    are you like 5 ?

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