Is it normal for my boyfriend not being sweet anymore but mean?

Is it normal for my boyfriend not being sweet anymore and mean? We've been together for 4 months and he changed alot. I said f**k you to me and called me to F**K my close guy friend. When i heard what he says,i kicked him and he hit the table. I was like,im sorry and he said F**k off and it hurt me. He even call me two faced cunt and bitches. He said he was stupid that he used to call me " perfect to him" and it sounded like he was stupid for choosing me as his gf. And he complains when i don't start the convo with him, and when i start the convo with him he said i was overly attached. We used to talk to each other on phone, whatsapp, skype for hours. But now he doesnt even want to talk to me on the phone and skype. We only whatsapp for like less than one hour. He don't call me dear,baby and so on anymore and not even i love you anymore. He hated me controlling him but when i don't anymore,he started to control me. He wanted me to change my personality. i thought boyfriends should love his girlfriend,not only for her looks and also accept and love just the way she is. Sometimes i just tell him that his words hurt me,and it always come back to me like everything was my fault. Im the only one who always say sorry.All my friend suggested me to break uo with him but they said it's my own decision whether i want it or not. But im still deeply in love with him sigh.