Is it normal for my boss and i to talk about sex, at work?

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My boss is an elderly gentleman and I am a young female. We talk about many subjects, sex being frequent because we both think about it a lot I guess. There's no sexual tension between us, he's not hitting on me and although I am not as liberal with the subject as he is, I'm not uncomfortable with it either. I love a good story.

So is it normal to talk about sex with my boss? I know it's against company policy and all, but we're both adults and we're both doing our job so niether of us see the harm.

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Based on 131 votes (57 yes)
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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    It's not entirely normal but as long as neither if you feels uncomfortable it is not a problem.

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  • PalestinianGuy
    11 years ago

    He's a straight male, of course there is sexual tension.

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    • theaverageatheist
      11 years ago

      how? thats like saying that theres sexual tension between me and my pianist....and we talk about sex all the time.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    i dont like it

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  • la_uva_mojada
    9 years ago

    he wants to fuck you.. don't be in denial

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  • kittylitter101
    11 years ago

    If you feel comfortable talking to him about sex, go ahead. In the end we're all human, with the same general experiences.

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  • derpyderp
    11 years ago

    I wouldn't be surprised if this guy does have at least a little interest in you but it seems he's keeping things fairly subtle.

    I say as long as you're not uncomfortable with the discussions then it's fine...

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  • Tarkio
    11 years ago

    If an older man is talking to you about sex (telling stories), you better belive he wants to turn you on and have sex with you. It can be a form of sexual harassment.

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  • ParisViaRome
    11 years ago

    I ran into my boss at a sex shop once. I saw her but she didn't see me. I ran for the hills. Sex + Work= Harassment or some kind of trouble/loss of job

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    • coolio75650932
      11 years ago

      story of my life

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  • Anime7
    11 years ago

    I see no harm in it. Sounds like it's just a casual conversation.

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    • navyknicks3
      9 years ago

      Yes I agree, I think he still has an interest in sex but does not have the partner or a major outlet for it and it makes him feel that he is part of modern day life. As long as he keeps it at talk I think that is ok, if you are ok with it.

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