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The initiation was always more so mutual beforehand whereas now it is all determined on my initiation as long as it doesn't interfere with him going to work. I don't feel like I am doing any thing wrong whatsoever. He says it has nothing to do with me doing anything wrong or because I am expecting. So regarding this behavior, IIN?
Maybe he's turned off by pregnant women. Not everyone thinks it's atrractive, i sure don't.
It is normal, but in my opinion also hurtful. It's common for guys to do that but you certainly may want to consider a sit down, as sex problems can lead to many other possible problems that you just don't need. Bite it in the butt. Make yourself clear (but not pushy), allow him time to explain, etc. He could just as simply have fears of being a good dad and provider distracting him. Or he could be swamped at work. Men have sex emotionally, too. They just don't know it cuz they shove that away.
There is nothing sexy about pregnant women at all, even if its your own child the women is carrying. And I have had people crap on my chest and vomit in my mouth during sex.
Of course it's normal... Why would he put gas in a car he already wrecked???
Nobody wants to bang a pregnant chick. The child might be born with shaken baby syndrome and thats just irresponsible!
If you're serious - http://www.babycenter.com/sex-during-pregnancy-overview
I wouldn't mind having sex with a pregnant woman depending on the woman she can be more easily stimulated for hotter sex ;)
When my wife was pregnant I didn't want to have sex as I thought that we might hurt the baby. However, as my wife is sexy as hell, and she was horny as hell, we took things slowly until got over our fear of hurting our baby. Pregnant women are sexy as hell and are just as horny as they were before they got pregnant.
its normal a lot of men dont do this its ok though not you fault.its a little ridiculous though even though i said that i would not do it ether
Honestly I have never ran into so many men saying pregnant women are nasty for most guys I know it's not a turn off I would bet he doesn't want to hurt the baby
I Would feel like the baby would get hurt, feel it would be irresponsible. Plus it's you'd have to think all sorts of thoughts just to get turned on. Look, there are two MAJOR turnoffs here:
a) the sight of a pregnant woman (unless you have that fetish).
b) your penis is jabbing only inches away form a baby.
You can't hurt a baby during sex unless your penis is the size of a giant needle.
after looking at MissSorel's link http://www.babycenter.com/sex-during-pregnancy-overview , *usually* it will cause no harm but it does suggest talking to your doc.
On the Other side, Pregnant women just became a whole lot sexier after reading that whole nipple thing... that's hot!
The OP has definitely got to drop that tip on her husband next time they are in bed!
Well some guys get turned off by pregnant women they cant help it, or he may be scared of harming your baby(which is possible) if this is the case consider oral sex or maybe concentrate on strengthening ur relationship without sex:) hopeeihelpedxoxo
it may be that he's afraid of hurting the baby
or he's afraid of triggering any hormonal reactions from you
I never said it was a rational fear...
Although that also depends on just how rough your sex is. if he's jumping on your belly for example that might not be something you wanna do in bed for a while.
but regular thrusting should be ok.
although missionary position may be uncomfortable for her at later stages of pregnancy - having someone lying down on top of your baby putting pressure on you. which is why it's often suggested that the couple try other positions such as "doggy" style etc