Is it normal for my bf to have incestual fantasies?

literotica, you say?

must check that out.

Unless he really wants to have sex with his mom, or his kids, then it's totally normal. Most fantasies are just fantasies. If the person ever actually came face to face with the act disgust would take over and they just wouldn't want it.

Yea they're normal. Probably reading too much Literotica lol--incest stories are the highest read on that site.
I wouldn't worry that he actually wants to act on these fantasies. I really doubt it actually. His mind is the one place anything, and I mean ANYTHING, goes.

if youve been with him that long then he is probably normal. loads of people have this because it's wrong, making it kinky, meaning more pleasure. i doubt that hed actually want to have sex with his mother at all; its just the concept of it.
have a nice day

I think this is normal. In some countries you could be seduced by your b/f's father.

have u ever thought about announcing to him about u and him being brother and sister and see how he reacts to that idea if he get really excited then there might be time to worry but if not then just carry on :)

if he's still acting them out with you, then that obviously means he isn't getting the real thing. there would be no need for pretending.

Its probably more of a who as the power thing than an incest thing.

normal

I wonder whats so wrong with incest? (other than the fact that it's illegal) My sister is the same as any other girl her age. no difference.

^ Yeah I hear you there, that is a pretty discusting thought, and I would be thinking the same way.

Many people find it ok b/c is just a fantasy.. But i don't think it's normal just b/c a big percentage of men like it! It's sooo wrong!! It actally makes me believe that if he ever be a "daddy" he might have fantasies with his daughter!! It freaks me out!

Go and enjoy 🤗

normal

his mother might have molested him when he was young. it happens way more than you think!

People here saying its normal but I think it's wierd. I don't think I would be able to do that unless he was seriously convincing HAHA

a lot of you stupid fucking assholes think you gonna live forever...life is a passing shadow...a shithole that you have to pay taxes and then die a painful excruciating death...any...and i mean any pleasure that you can squeeze out of this god forsaken shithole ...make sure you do...enjoy any fantasiy that does not involve hurting another human being....stop listening to these fucktards on here who still havent lived enough...nor suffered enough to even have an opinion...when you are dying and are an old shriveled upmpiece of shit...you are gonna wish you lived all the life you could..trust me on that one

its normal...but it would take me too long to explain it ...read freud for the basic gist of it....you also have fantasies that some people would consider sick...that is why you need to stop listening to all these fucking stupid idiots on this sight...some have never read a real book in their fucking lives but think they can give other people relationship advice...just dont be stupid enough to actually listen tontheses fucking assholes

100 % Normal

It's normal.
These are domination based fantasies. It's a common misconception that to dominate exclusively means to cause pain to someone else's body for sexual pleasure, it doesn't. Domination can take many forms but it's root is psychology -it's the idea & feeling of being in control. In your case with your boyfriend it's the type of control adult (usually a guardian figure) has over a child. If some nobody on the street tells you to "come here" like he's your boss, you'd tell him to fuck off & you'd keep walking but if "Daddy" (your boyfriend) says to you in a very stern but sexy tone of voice to "come here", you'd melt & follow orders. See what I mean?

Yes , it's perfectly normal to role play and have fantasies. The problems come when you act them out . Ask any professional and they will agree. Also I agree that the taboo fantasies seem more erotic and arousing because they are kinky and taboo. I have some very kinky taboo fantasies and really enjoy how hot they make me and my partner. The kinkier, nastier, and more shocking to others the more turned on I get . The important point is I would never act on them. They are just a fantasy and perfectly normal. Since it does make you uncomfortable though you should express that to him. No one should ever have to do something sexual that makes them uncomfortable . If he truly loves you he should understand. I love my fantasies and as long as the participants are consenting adults and agree then any thing you care to fantasize about or act out in the privacy of your home is your business. Enjoy a healthy and happy sex life. Fantasize!

ask him if hed wanna try DP while ur roleplaying. tell him its your dad that gets back door and see if that disgusys him like it should.

Your Boyfriend Sounds Like One Damaged Person, He Clearly Needs Some Help...

its normal i wish i had a sister or brother

Fantasies are supposed to be fun...for both of you.

If it isn't, tell him to stop.

No good. But very common.
Tell him it turns you off, ask him to come up with cleaner fantasies, and play along. Slowly and steadily get rid of fantasies altogether.
You must compensate somehow. You have to make sex hot even without fantasies.
If you continue fantasizing, somewhere down the line it loses the spark, and becomes stale. What will he come up with then? Parhaps he'll screw his sister for real.

im not gonna saw right or wrong. im jus gona say that if ur not comfortable then u you should jus be honest. honesty is the most important thg

duh it is normal

He probably likes it because it's taboo

I don't think it's anything bad, as long as it stays in the bedroom. Everyone has their own thing. Sometimes the 'wrong' passions make people more excited, and in that moment, I'm sure that's all he really wants out of it, not to pretend you're really his mom. But if it bothers you, you should sit him down and ask him, even if that's hard to do.

I think it's a little insane, you should talk a little to a professionnal.

Ew thats disgusting. Like are people really that fucked up lately? I wouldn't be surprised if he turned out to be a pedophile chasing little kids. Or even worse his own children. Grosssssssssssss!

@LOVELYFEATHERS818...
WELL, YOURE LOL, BUT HOW IS YOUR SEX LIFE?
I MEAN, WE'RE STILL HOT AND HEAVY, AND WE KEEP THE FANTASIES IN OUR SEX LIFE. AND THAT MAKES IT KINKIER..
HOW MANY PEOPLE OUT THERE CAN SAY THAT THEY HAVE THIER MAN 100 % SATISFIED, AND THEY ARE 100% SURE THAT THEY WONT CHEAT?
THATS WHY WE KEEP IT KINKY. I HAVE PLEASED HIM SO MUCH THAT IN 19 MONTHS, HE HAS ONLY BEEN SATISIFIED BY ME, AND ONLY ME!!
I AM 100 % CONFIDENT THAT HE IS GETTING ALL HIS NEEDS MET, AND WHEN WE HAVE SEX, WE KEEP IT KINKIER EVERY TIME..
AND EVEN WHEN WE'RE OUT TOGETHER, WE SHOW THE WORLD THAT WE'RE PERFECT FOR EACH OTHER..WE HAVE SEX ANYWHERE POSSIBLE, AND THAT MAKES IT HOTTER....WE'RE SO UNTRADITIONAL, AND THATS WHY OUR SEX LIFE IS THE BOMB!!!

lol @ 'our sex life is the bomb!"

Ewage.

Well I think its normal I think a lot of men and women have sexual fantacy about family members. As long as thats all it is its ok if he ever acts on it thedn not.

thats nasty

hm does he have a healthy relationship with his parents?! lets just hope it's the thought of the words that turn him on and that he is not actually thinking of his mother while he bangs you :)

^agreed. I say if you are into incest you need to leave the rest of the population alone and just fuck your family. Don't breed either.

Sister, cousin, aunt, or brother,
How sick to think of fucking your mother

ask him if he has ever been molested..may be something..may not, but you should still want to know!

It's sick, of course -- which you realize or you wouldn't be asking. So, have you propositioned your own father or brothers yet?

Also, you should never be coerced into doing something you feel the tad bit uncomfortable with. I would never go along with that game. And I wouldn't care if he got mad or broke up with me.