Is it normal for my bf to flirt with young girls in front of me?

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I'm a 44 year-old woman. My boyfriend was flirting with a 19 year-old girl right in front of me. I felt humiliated. I brought it up later and he denied it. But he was laughing, smiling and leaning towards her talking in a seductive way. His pupils were huge and he was blushing! He's always telling me how old I am, when we fight, but he is older than I am. Then after the fight he said he loved me. I am very upset. This can't be love. He also always has young girls as roommates. He had sex with one of them, but claims we were "on a break "
So what is really going on?

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  • Kookulainamus
    7 years ago

    Yes you are old. Now he will trade his 44 year old in on two 22 year olds. Your sexual market value is declining rapidly. Stop feeling so entitled.

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    • Silencedvoice
      7 years ago

      And you are ignorant. This forum is not a collection of the brightest minds. I joined for useful insights on somewhat trivial and lighthearted situations. I am trying not to get offended by all the personal insults and hostility. This is not fun like I thought it would be, few people here are kind and insightful. Those of you who have been, thanks for the purity of heart. For all of the creepy dolts, I think I am going to keep out of this forum. Epsilon Morons...or useful idiots don't play fair and take the fun out of everything....

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  • empty.heart
    7 years ago

    It's okay only if you allow it. Know your boundaries and stick with them!

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  • foods-dangerous-to-dogs
    7 years ago

    Not okay. he is older than 44 and was flirting with a little girl? That is so awful. AND he is cheating on you. smfh.

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    Why have you posted the same thing three times?

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  • mrbrownfinger
    7 years ago

    My wife left me this morning so I got up and spent our savings on 2 black hookers, booze and a massive pile of cocaine. She's gonna go mental when she comes home from work.

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  • Silencedvoice
    7 years ago

    He just asked me to move in, but I was on the fence. Suddenly, he said that he has a new roommate. I didn't get a chance to decide. So from then on he made strange excuses about why I couldn't come over anymore
    I knew he was lying and we fought. So in his mind we were "broke up. "
    Once she moved out of his house, he asked me to move in! But, I felt suspicious because while she was there he sent me pictures of the two of them. We were fighting at the time. So the photos were provocative, she was half naked...
    Later, he told me that they were having sex. He blamed me because I didn't move in!

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    • sandnigga
      7 years ago

      Hmmmm. Well techniqually in his mind you two were broken up.

      It just sounds though like he's trying to make a excuse

      To me, it sounds like he wants you, but at the same time he just wants other girls too.

      For the room thing: If he cant wait for you to make up your mind, and your his boyfriend, then what does that tell you?

      Sounds like he could be trouble in the future. Of course you should be able to TRY to trust him though.

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  • sandnigga
    7 years ago

    Were you really on a break? Or were you two still together?

    Cause if you two were still together, then he cheated.

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