Is it normal for my bf to be to much of a mamas boy??!!!

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Im so very fustrated with my boyfriend he says he wants us to move in together after he graduates college which is this May. But hasn't even told his parents were getting a place together they believe men and women shouldn't live together before marriage my family does to but they all kknow my plans of me and him getting a place together even tho they don't like it it or don't agree with it. im an adult it's my decision i understand he doesn't want to disapoint them or make them mad etc.i' ve asked him when are you planning to ask them he said after he graduates. but im starting to think he might be to much of a mamas boy/ parents boy period i mean hes a grown man about to be 24 this can't be normal can it???

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    12 years ago

    I don't know about him, but moving out of one's home can be very stressful if you have such a full plate, and if he is actually applying himself in school, then I'd reckon to say that he is just being responsible and staying focused on school.

    May isn't too far off. Why are you two in such a hurry? Just wait for him to graduate so he can get his career and life on track before making such a big step, because it IS a big step. He's only 24, goddam. Moving out is expensive and he sounds like another patient guy that wants to make sure he's got his ducks in their row before he shoots them, cherie.

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    • cammers
      12 years ago

      oh yeah were waiting to move in together after he graduates not right now not really in a hurry i 've been supportive of his schooling and everything its the fact that he hasn 't even told his parents yet i think they need to know and heck yeah it's a huge step moving in together with the job hes getting and my job we will be able to afford it i 've already figure it out. but i have backed off about the whole thing because it's stupid to get in little arguments.

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    I don't think he's a mama's boy...he just respects his parents wishes. I went through the same thing when my bf wanted to move in with me and it was tough telling them after seeing my mom cry over my bro moving in with his gf. It all worked out in the end but I understand where he's coming from. Just see what he decides.

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  • DeathNule:(
    12 years ago

    I don't know why you are so selfish. Is it a crime to accept people for what they are?

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    • cammers
      12 years ago

      what???! are you even talking about? how am i selfish??

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I would move in with you Cammers. Just say the word.

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    • cammers
      12 years ago

      thank you lol im sure you would

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  • cammers
    12 years ago

    No not at all

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  • GeorgeMcBob
    12 years ago

    Is he Jewish?

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    • cammers
      12 years ago

      no he isn't

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