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Is it normal that when my best friend was in school in her teens she was so closed up and introverted ,now it's like she says alot about herself , both cases are bad (being too introverted and being too open..expose herself alot ) , is it normal for this to happen ?
She's probably just having trouble finding the right balence. She probably knows that she has a problem with openness, give her time.
It's usually in teenhood that people are crazy and open and as they grow up they become more careful with what to say m but in her case it's the opposite , lol , in her teens she was quite and shy and rarelt talked , now it's like she bliogs and talks about her emotions alot and expose herself alot .
Sounds normal, It's like she's an introvert but fighting her nature to become and extrovert! I went through this process. It's sort of liek she feels comfortable being introverted and falls back to her old ways, but she wants to be more outgoing, so she is when she can be
Give her time. She will most likely realize the disadvantages to living your life like an open book and find moderation in her sociality.
I am not against it but she's gone from one extreme to another ( and the extremes should have been the opposite , like in shcool she she should have been loud and crazy and now quieter and more reserved ) ,but she's like the other extreme now especially via the internet , through blogs and such . I think the middle ground is the best :)