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I told my boyfriend I fancy Matt Damon (I'm 27) and he told me he fancies Chloe Moretz after seeing her in the Best Coast video. I got really mad and said it's gross. Is it normal that he fancies her? Because even if she was 18, she would still be over 10 years younger than him... And, she looks like a child.
"Sniff sniff'' i smell jealousy here+double standards if you didnt like his choice then stop the fancy thing.And isnt matt damon a bit old for you?
So you're really afraid he is going to fancy someone younger than you soon...
He's with you for a reason, embrace that.
tbh I have no idea who chloe mortez is. If she isn't 18 and your friend knows it then he shouldn't say that stuff out loud (but for reference 16 is the age of consent in australia, so it'd be legal here depending on the circumstance).
How old she does or doesn't look is irrelevant, would you rather he find a girl hot who's one of those "I'm 13 but pass for 21" types?
as for the age gap that's a personal preference thing, and a whole other IIN question.
I'd think it would be better than him fancying a girl he could actually cheat on you with, like your best friend. Get a grip, honey, he's a guy and no matter how much he loves you, he's gonna look at and desire other women. If you act like a jealous bitch over some unattainable actress, you will be a lonely jealous bitch pretty soon.
I'm not even going to get into the age thing with you; I doubt you could handle that.
So Alec Baldwin (55) and Hilaria Thomas (29) are perfectly normal. So 26 years is ok if they are older than you, but the second someone mentions someone 10 years younger you freak out?
So....then why are girls attracted to older men, and older men attracted to younger girls? Generally speaking, a younger girl is more resilient physically than an older woman. From a biological perspective, this means that at the onset of puberty, she can start having children, and her chances of survival are increased because of her youth. The opposing side to that is why on earth a younger girl would prefer to mate with an older male. Mainly strength. An older male will have established hunting trails, and knowledge how to defend himself and his "family." A younger male will have a more difficult time protecting/bringing food home simply because he isn't as experienced. Obviously back in those days life spans were quite short. But we haven't really evolved out of that yet. It was quite common for 12 year old girls to mate with 25-30 year old males. More chances to get her pregnant, more ability to provide, more potential offspring.
Your boyfriend is being a normal guy. Most guys consider girls as soon as they start developing pubic hair. So that is what 12 on average? Most guys ignore the primal hardwired instinct and stick to girls closer to their own age. So just because your boyfriend said something, doesn't mean he's going to actually go do it.
So there, you have science fact, and my opinion.