Is it normal for mother to call her 3 year old son bastard everyday?

Also she said today she will kill him if he keeps annoying her.She yells and rages at him every single day.When you talk to her about it she will say he's naughty boy but he's just like any other kid, he doesn't do anything bad, he doesn't cry all the time.He just wants to play or sometimes even just be with her.I have to listen to that sh*t everyday and she did the same to us (im now older and also my sister)
I told her to go to therapist or something about her aggression but she won't ever go, she would just reply with "go there yourself" and when I say what I think about all of that she will tell me to be quiet eventhough I'm quiet 90% of the day and she yells 95% of the day.
Also sorry for my english I'm not from english speaking country so some words may seem to not fit the best.

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Comments ( 22 )
  • Justsomejerk

    That's so sad, poor kid.

    I saw something similar: a little boy with his dad staying in a YMCA and the dad was such a cunt to his son.

    I really didn't know what to do, if I said anything to him he might take it out on the kid when I was gone. I felt like I dropped the ball as all I did was give the guy a dirty look.

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    • recognizable3

      that's what I see everyday at home... she also blames everything she does on him ... when I tell her something about it she will excuse herself with "he was naughty" line and she actually believes it... isnt she psycho...? i think so

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      • Justsomejerk

        Yeah, having kids didn't necisarily make you a parent.

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  • thanksforthefreecar

    She obviously doesn't love him, andis abusive to him.

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  • record her and play it back she might be shocked how repulsive she sounds

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    • recognizable3

      good idea, I thought about that many times actually haha

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    Why can't people like that stop reproducing? This cycle will repeat later when the abused child becomes adult and has children of his own. That mother was probably abused too. Life is absurd and we are overpopulated. STOP BREEDING

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    • recognizable3

      exactly :(

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  • BlueAlice

    Child abuse. Report it now!

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  • DLois

    Go to the police and report this ASAP! She threatened to Kill a 3 yr. old child.
    Considering her mental instability this should be taken seriously that is not fair to that poor little boy to be consistantly mentally abused and if you stay silent and god forbid something did happen you will feel bad at least if you talk to some authority on the matter you did what you could.
    I'm sorry that you are having to deal with this just do the right thing

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  • xXScYtHeXx

    My mother was.. And infact still is fucking insane like this, I'm 20, my sister is 26 and my brother is 5, she and her father taught my brother how to say "grandad neil is a cunt" from the age of 3 (Neil being the grandfather on the dads side, he is a cunt but don't bring the kid into it), she even knocked my sister out once for going insane and kicking a door, she swung at me once as well, anyway back to my brother, I'm a grown ass man, I occasionally say "shit" or "fuck" if I mess up, fair enough, however she says "fucking" "fuck" "cunt" "twat" and many more on a day to day basis, around the younger brother, however if I say "shit" when I drop a drink or something she says "you need to do something about that language", I seriously have no idea how she works, she has had a stressful life but my brother is 5, not 25, I feel for you OP, I really do.

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    • recognizable3

      I don't even know what to reply with because it's exactly like my mother, it got to the point I can't stand her voice anymore

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  • KeddersPrincess

    What kind of mother is she?

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  • Bugfrog

    I would simply punch her in the face and tell her to knock her shit off before she ends up in the hospital. :)

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    • recognizable3

      you'd punch your own mother?

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  • Tell her to call him 'motherfucker'instead.

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    • recognizable3

      that comment made my day thanks :P

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  • Darkoil

    Maybe call social services?

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  • zchristian

    If she is that mean to him then seriously get him away from her as soon as possible...

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  • anti-hero

    Is she married to his father? If not then she is technically correct.

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    • recognizable3

      hahaha xD
      actually the words she uses arent bastard as in english meaning, she uses all kinds of insults and she did that to him when he was 2 as well, his father is weird as well but not insulting him at least

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  • Report it. She is gonna find herself in an old folks home when he grows up. haha

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