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Nothing Personal but would you consider a relationship normal if the man is stable, has got a good job but wants to live on their girlfrend's finances..? Meaning he doesn't want to spend anything on her instead he wants her to spend on him, buy him drinks, live in her house etc.. Does this sound normal?
I don't think it's right that man or woman should be so reliant on their partners, although it does seem more socially acceptable when a woman is the, "leech", as others dub such people.
Both should contribute.
As you can see ItDuz it only goes one way. Look at the vote so far at 9%. This is precisely the behavior of women the other way around but I don't complain I accept and infact encourage it because when what their selling (pussy) is no longer worth it to me I'll discard and get a new one. It's a win win situation.
I'd say it's not normal b/c most men's natural instincts are still to protect & provide & MOST
men wouldn't even feel comfortable treating a woman he's into that way. I know some people are going to say that what I just said was bullshit, but I don't think it is. I still know men who feel threatened or emasculated when the woman they're with makes more money than them.
With that said, men living off women is becoming more common, even though I don't think it's necessarily normal, but it's a sign of the kind of society we now live in.
I'm in a similar situation. He never spent a penny on me. He won't work. I make very good money. He leaches off me. And he is always meeting really young girls. He always is making up stories and gives out his number. I feel like he only reason for me, is to support his lifestyle. He is 45 years old and I am 44. I am attractive and smart. I am used to dating men in my profession, M.D. s.
He is poor, unattractive and mean. I am starting to feel abused.
That depends on long term plans. Say a couple is wanting simething big ir expemsive itd only make sense to put all of ones budget towards it, however if hes just cheep well..
I agree that both people should contribute in a relationship, but when a man can't spend anything.. All he wants is to depend on you, yet he's got a job that and he's even earning way much more than the lady, but wants the lady to use whatever little she has on him.. I find that soo different, like there's no love there. Just being a Leach..