Is it normal for men to act this way in relationship?

I love my man to death but our relationship is falling apart, I no longer have trust for him at all. He lies, fibs,sneaks, plots and conives. I'm sick of it. I'll even have proof such as a reciepts saying he was in different town at such time, when he was texting me he was elsewhere. Even tho I put it to him he denys all. And he will delete texts and calls ( I can look at records ) like he will make plans with friend n front of me then text that same friend when off the phone and delete it all. I know I must seem suspicious but if I hadn't accidently caught him alot I wouldn't b. He also shows hardly any interest in intimacy, he turns me down then will wait till I'm in shower or asleep n pop on the porn. I have first hand caught this as well even after I threw myself at him. He says it's his ego cuz gained weight, or whatever excuse he has for that evening, im sick of the deception no matter how small, its like hes hiding bigger things and im atttention starved. Hes been on depressed mode since lost job, is this normal to go thru? Or is he tellin me something else

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13% Normal
Based on 67 votes (9 yes)
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  • purplegirl22

    Option #1: He is cheating on you.bAnd you should break up with him.
    Option #2: Break up with him, and find someone wlse who will give you attention because you are sick of this.
    Option #3: See a couples therapist to work out your differences.

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  • Mando

    No. How much more evidence do you need that he is not "Mr Right?"?

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  • GuessWho

    No.

    I can't stand liars. I would have dumped him long ago if I were you.

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  • if you really care for him warn him that you will be gone soon if he doesnt speak up, he might be depressed about the job, find out the truth then decide if its worth saving

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  • CreamPuffs

    I think you ought to have a discussion with him about it, and if it doesn't change you may have to leave him. His behavior isn't normal for most males.

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  • CountryChick

    Drop him like a hot potato. If he really loved you he wouldn't lie to you all the time.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    no it's not your wall of text fell on me and my mustard fell out.

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  • hurtgirlfriend

    I'm sorry you are going through this. Please dump this guy... It's clear something is going on and he has something to hide. And you deserve so much better than that. No one deserves to be lied to, disrespected, and deprived of intimacy.

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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt

    Why don't you leave?

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  • Shackleford96

    To me it kind of sounds like you like this type of treatment. Why else would you put up with such a ridiculous situation?

    My advice (I should just start saying this before I even read the stories...) is to break up with him and find a new boyfriend that will treat you better.

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