Is it normal for me wanting to forgive my cuz for raping me

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i was raped by my cousin when i was 6yrs old all the way until i was 13yrs old. i have yet to tell my parents bcuz i feel bad about my cousin. i mean like he hurt me BAD but im christian and to me God would want me to forgive him, right? And i also have been wanting to confront him about it but i always feel stupid and ackward and bad about it..... Plz i need advice (perferably from sum1 who has been through it)

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    If Yahweh exists and cares for you then surely he/she would have enough sense to understand that sometimes it is impossible to forgive a person. That there are certain things that you should NEVER turn the other cheek to. I think you should report him to the cops. For all you know, he might be doing this to other little girls. Who is going to stand up and fight for them?

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    • FJK_frm_AK25
      8 years ago

      Rah,chrshna,Yahweh,buddah,Hindu,Shiva,zuez,Jesus,soon many to choose from

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    Forgiveness is wonderful but i think he should be made to pay for his transgressions. How, is up to you. Maybe to cut his fucking cock off would be good for a start.

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  • xxDreamWeaverxx
    13 years ago

    Do NOT feel bad. Your cousin knew what he was doing, and he should be punished. You need to tell a trusted adult! Being a Christian does not mean being submissive and letting someone who hurt you and took your innocence roam free. Please get help; he does NOT deserve freedom.

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  • MakienzyGirl11
    13 years ago

    You should forgive him but not trust him. He should he punished he knew what he was doing

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  • jensapa
    13 years ago

    Forgiving your cousin is the best thing to do. That doesn't mean your saying it's ok, but harboring anger an hate is very unhealthy. I think your very mature an brave for thinking that way. I have never been raped but I can imagine it would be a very hard thing to deal with. good on u an good luck.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Some things are impossible to forgive, I have someone I will never forgive and to be frank, they do not deserve a single second of my time.

    I would advise you to not hold onto hate but forgiveness is something that can be hard to give.

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    • pantychaffe
      7 years ago

      Bitch patrol is on early shift tonight!

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