Is it normal for me to wonder?

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I don't want to think like this..but I can't help but wonder if my boyfriend has sex with his male friends. My ex boyfriend(we were together for three years) was cheating on me with a man. Probably more than one but I caught him doing it. Saw him,heard it. Now every guy I'm with makes me wonder. I just want honesty, I have nothing against it. Just don't like secrets. Hell, id want to watch if anything. Something about it just really turns me on.

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  • Short4Words
    11 years ago

    Given what you've experienced, it's normal to wonder, but seriously consider, I don't think so. Most men don't cheat on their partners with men, I'm sorry that happened to you. I hope your new boyfriend treats you better.

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  • MilleBornes
    11 years ago

    LOL Seriously? I agree with Short4words, but seriously? Not laughing about you being cheated on, it's that you now suspect every man you talk to as gay, or in this case bisexual Also, a liar. So this one guy makes you view all men as some liars and when you tell them to go suck a duck, they just might lol

    All men don't cheat. We make big deal of it as a society and linger upon it as individuals, but I believe that the majority of the population are honest and loyal. There are men who go both ways everywhere, so you could find that guy if it really turns you on.

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    • quentari
      11 years ago

      most people who've been cheated on take ages to "get over it" and mistrust their next partners lol, no matter how ridiculous it sounds :)

      But I do agree, not all men cheat. Most don't. It's just the minority that gives everyone else a bad rep.

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      • MilleBornes
        11 years ago

        Agreed

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  • Skitzo1
    11 years ago

    I was hoping to read something else.

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  • Short&2thepoint
    11 years ago

    Eh... I'm odd in the way I don't really think same-sex sex is cheating. You know what. I was going to attempt to make this an intelligent and somewhat meaningful comment... but nah. I say join in if you catch him. ^^

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  • coopert
    11 years ago

    I lold so hard on the last sentence. So irrelevant

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  • Maya05
    11 years ago

    Unless he is showing obvious signs of cheating, he probably isn't. I understand that you were cheated on once and you think it will happen again. But try not to worry about it, like I said, unless he is giving you reason to think he is cheating he probably isn't.

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  • baronroderick
    11 years ago

    I don't think men above 20yrs are likely to have sex with their male friends unless they are franky gay or bisexual. Don't think casual discoveries and exploitations are too common after adolescence. But I understand your fancy.

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  • chron
    11 years ago

    It's so normal i cannot even describe it. I also think about what my girlfriend might do because of what my ex did. :)

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  • ibreathelectric
    11 years ago

    Everything about that post was a bit frightening, to be totally honest. Yikes! Once trust is broken it's tough to get it back and if someone hurts you badly you always fear it's going to happen in all your other relationships. That part is normal, at least. But the chances of that oddity happening AGAIN are extremely slim. I wouldn't worry about it and find someone who is as straight as possible? And someone who will build your trust back up :)

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