Is it normal for me to wish to surprise my husband?

i really want to make my relationship with my husband stronger. i really want to surprise him, but i do not know what shall i do. i want to bake a cake for him, yet i have nothing, i do not go to work. i'm always at home, cleaning,cooking meals, washing dish. What shall i do to surprise him?

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  • get a sex change

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    • Justsomejerk

      Surprise!

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  • myboyfriendsbitch

    Get a job.

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    • kelili

      That's great! Absoulutely brilliant!

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  • can wear some sexy outfit. my husband is so conservative . he doesn't want me to wear such outfit even though its for him. i take off my shirt and skirt in front of him, yet he doesn't mind me. he just ignores me.

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  • what shall i do? i don't know what to do?. ahmm... what if i'll just make him a delicious dinner? what if i'll set us a date at home? will i surprise him?:)

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    • myboyfriendsbitch

      I was half kidding about the job thing, although to me it does seem quite unfulfilling to do nothing but cook and clean. Remember you must live for yourself and not just for your husband.There are many crafts/hobbies you could take up (sewing, jewelry making, pottery classes, glassblowing, furniture making... etc.) to give you passion for life and make you some extra money (etsy.com is a good website for selling such things).

      For the surprise sex, just check out a nearby sex store and maybe purchase a sexy outfit. You could get a bottomless fishnet body suit or something. It's super sexy and only cost in the $10 range.

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      • hi. can you help me sell ebooks on etsy? can you give me some ideas on how to sell ebooks? thanks

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      • can you hel me earn money? coz i dont know what to do to earn money. can you please help me? please? kinda need your help. please help me:(

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  • thanks for the comment:)

    i think i cannot do that. no body knows that I'm already married. we're secretly married. and. i haven't graduated in college.

    how can i get a job?

    too bad i can't surprise him:(

    surprise sex? NO NO NO! he's always in bad mood. he doesn't even give much time with me. he is always playing his PC games. i do not know what should i do:(

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    • Justsomejerk

      Of course he's in a bad mood, he's not getting any surprise sex.

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  • Short4Words

    Surprise sex? I'll leave that one up to you.

    Do something that he wants to do. Like see a football game or whatever. Something maybe that he's talked about quite a bit but you just didn't want to bother.

    Host a party where he can relax and not worry about doing all the preparation and other stuff.

    Make his favourite meal.

    And maybe take a pointer from the above user and start making some money on the side maybe selling things, or a service or something. That might make him happy too.

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