Is it normal for me to want to live with him?

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So my best friend and I have been talking a lot about the future recently. He is a year older than I am and he is leaving school in a couple months and getting a job. We are super close and I love him a lot. Only thing is, he has been talking about moving into a flat of his own as soon as possible and we have talked about me living with him. I know it must sound immature, but as he is a guy and I'm a girl, is it normal for me to want to live with him, even though we're just teenagers?

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  • Alaska
    12 years ago

    i think is normal :) and when you love him and you have the opportunity :) Go ahead :)

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    • JustHer
      12 years ago

      Thank you :)

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  • truercheese
    12 years ago

    It's normal. It's fun too. When I was younger I had two guy friends that had an apartment together, and I lived with them for a while. It wasn't a big deal to me. My parents were a little bit concerned, but now I'm back with them until I graduate High School :b
    Haha when I say "when I was younger", it makes me sound old, but I'm just older than before xb

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    • JustHer
      12 years ago

      Haha fair enough, and thanks:)

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  • JustHer
    12 years ago

    Oh aren't we all ;D
    But thank you for the advice :)

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    12 years ago

    I would talk to him, ask if he likes you or if you're just friends. If your doing this to make sure the living situation would be comfortable he will understand! I have roomed with a very beautiful woman before and there was no awkwardness at all! We were just friends and kept it that way.

    Hell if you talk to him about it he may just come out and say he likes you! What would you do then?

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    • JustHer
      12 years ago

      I'll talk to him, but I'm honestly sure he won't.

      If he did? Well I guess I'd maybe try to introduce him to a pretty friend of mine and hope they'd get along? I don't know.. xD

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      • Captain_Kegstand
        12 years ago

        My point in asking, is just wondering is that a guy you would consider dating, because if not you really need to find out his intentions before you move in. If he likes you and you try and bring another guy home, you cannot imagine the level of awkwardness that would ensue! And if he is genuinely just friends, it would be no problem at all!

        And as for the pretty friends, feel free to send one my way! ;) lolz j/k

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        • JustHer
          12 years ago

          hahaha ;)

          Yeah I see your point :), well I'll definitely ask him about it ( but maybe nearer the time)as it is around a year away before it is possible :P

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          • Captain_Kegstand
            12 years ago

            Ya i'd wait till closer to the time, since by then the whole situation might have changed anyways! ( I tend to be a procrastinator) lolz

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  • ccjigsaw
    12 years ago

    Have you considered that maybe he likes you? It's pretty common. If he likes you then you living with him in a one bedroom would be hard on the guy if he's in the friends zone. Kind of like he wants to escape and get it over with, and you coming could be a problem. That's only if he's not cool with the idea though, if he thinks you should move with him, I would still keep in mind he might have the hots for you

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    • JustHer
      12 years ago

      Well we have discussed things like that, and at one point we did like each other.. but both of us have agreed that we didn't have feelings for each other any more and continued to be close friends. I know how it must sound, but I really don't think we could be this close if one of us secretly liked the other, especially as we tell each other everything (we honestly never shut up haha) but I get what you mean, thank you :)

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  • JustHer
    12 years ago

    hahaha yeah :P :)

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  • tbiM20
    12 years ago

    I prefer living with someone I know over complete strangers (i.e. dorms)

    But are you talking about it for economical reasons (moving out anyway, save $ on rent), for the location (closer to school/work) or just for the heck of it? Bc if you don't have a reason, why move out at all? Save the rent money for something you will actually NEED.

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    • JustHer
      12 years ago

      well neither of us have much money at the moment, also, it will be closer to his work/my uni :P

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      • tbiM20
        12 years ago

        Those are both decent reasons to consider living together :-) bc trust me, rent + groceries + utilities + school payments get expensive FAST!

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        • JustinBiebsFan#1
          12 years ago

          just start hooking

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  • Anime7
    12 years ago

    I'd say it's normal. If you have a genuine connection with someone then I don't see why not. My friends and I have actually discussed living together while attending community college after high school. I can empathize with you about wanting to live with someone you connect with.

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    • JustHer
      12 years ago

      thank you :)
      I guess it might just work out then, eh? ;D

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      • JustinBiebsFan#1
        12 years ago

        he is probably going to touch you while you sleep

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        • JustHer
          12 years ago

          umm.. ew XD I really doubt that.

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          • JustinBiebsFan#1
            12 years ago

            you wont know when your sleeping and he is drunk or high

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  • JustinBiebsFan#1
    12 years ago

    just fuck and get over with it

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    • JustHer
      12 years ago

      hahaha

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