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So I am a 22 yr old female, single, and a virgin.
I am currently reading all these books where there are some very heated sex scenes. The sex scenes are mostly hard (and sometimes rough) sex.
Should I be wanting to have sex like this??
I fantasize about having hard sex ALL the time...normal..?
It's normal to be horny. Lots of people are a lot of the time, and it's especially normal if you've never had sex before because your latent horniness can be increased by curiosity. Lots of people like rough sex because they think of it as animalistic and passionate and extreme, like it's heightening to the senses. The reality kind of depends on the specific act and the individuals performing it, you have to experiment with a partner you trust and find out what you like and what you don't.
The first time you have sex it might be better to keep it vanilla, but who am I to tell you how to live your life? :P
Maybe not for your first time. I'd take it easy when the time comes. Then you can have hard, rough, sweaty, throat squeezing sex. My bf "choked" me while I was blowing him last night, that was fun.