Is it normal for me to still wet the bed and i'm 21

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How do I stop this? I smell like pee if I don't take a shower everyday and constantly have to change my mattress cos of it. I'm can't be in a relationship or have people over and all cos I'm afraid of what they will think. My room smells like piss too cos I pee the bed everyday and I've been on medication before to try stop it but never lasts long. Please help

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Stop drinking water before going to bed!

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  • MssMurd3r
    12 years ago

    U should get ur kidneys checked. Or ur urethra might have a blockage.

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    • tbiM20
      12 years ago

      ^ this

      My sis wet the bed til she was 17. She had recurring kidney infections.

      You may have a medical issue. It is not an uncommon issue, but is not healthy. Your doctor can help you, but you need to get over the embarrassment and tell him, so they can help you. If they aren't helping, get a referral to a specialist or another doctor.

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  • Jweezee
    12 years ago

    You didn't google this? I did and here's something:
    Bedwetting Alarm System: A bedwetting alarm is a device that awakens an individual from sleep as soon as the accident begins. Multiple variations of the alarm exist, ranging from vibrating to sounding alarms and wet-detection devices that can be attached to the underwear or a pad on which the individual sleeps. Once awoken, the individual is able to stop the flow of urine, finish voiding in the bathroom, and return to bed. Eventually the body is conditioned to wake up with the urge to urinate before wetting the bed.  This treatment option takes some weeks to work, requiring motivation and commitment. It is not as effective if the alarm goes off multiple times per night due to more than one bedwetting episode from decreased functional bladder capacity. Although, in many cases of bedwetting, this device helps the user overcome the condition.

    Good luck!

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    • Gezzatron
      12 years ago

      I have tried that.. It's pointless!

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      • Jweezee
        12 years ago

        Why don't you do some more research: <a href="http://www.bed-wetting.info/adult-bed-wetting.html"

        Within 5 minutes of looking shit up on this issue i've found a lot.

        When no medical problems or no physiological changes are seen in an adult, the bed wetting may be caused by extreme emotional stresses. Rejection, dismissal, death of a loved one, and other similar problems may have brought about the adult bedwetting.

        Is it a medical condition? Get some plastic sheets and continue to work on it bud. Appearently, from what i've read, you're not alone. Try that alarm thing again, maybe talk to a psychologist if it's not medical. You can't give up if you want to conquer it.

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  • PEACHES1134
    9 years ago

    My duaghter is 10 she is one of 4 children. She has to wear pullups to bed, I have has her to severel docs done what they said. still pees the bed. she is humiliated. can't have friends over. realy can't spend the night anywere. But I want to thank you because when she reads this she will feel better. and I'm sure you will eventualy find the problem and correct it. Sorry for your predicument

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago

    If you're a girl you can date a guy with a piss fetish.

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  • diaperwolf21
    10 years ago

    I've been wetting the bed since i was 5, and I;ve been wearing diapers since I was 16. I have no chance of stopping this. I have no control either.

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  • Shy-Ann
    11 years ago

    When I was young, I used a bedwetting alarm system, it helped a lot! Never hurts to try

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  • hallietheadorable
    12 years ago

    are you a girl or a boy.

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    • Gezzatron
      12 years ago

      Girl

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      • robbieforgotpw
        11 years ago

        Start with airing your room out.

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  • beagle101tb
    12 years ago

    Take a tower everyday and wear adult diapers. Tell your doctor you have done absolutely everything he said and it didn't work. Ask him if there is anything else that you can. Search it on Google.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Buy a new matress that still has the plastic seal on. When I was lil my mom kept it on untill she was sure on more wet problems would arouse. Its sometimes hard to sleep on it if you dont put a thick sheet under because then you can feel the plastics but it worked. It will take away the problem of your room smelling like pee as long as you change the sheets everyday. And the part about peeing dont drink too much water at night. sure you need 3 glasses of water a day I think.. but do it in the morning or afternoon and try to stay away from too much water at night and make sure you go to the bathroon before going to sleep.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago

    I'm sorry that you have to go through that. I think you should talk to a doctor about it, though, because if you're still doing it now, it might be more than you think. You really should get checked out to see if something might be wrong. I wish you the best of luck! Hopefully, its nothing too serious.

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  • HeardsOfSheep
    12 years ago

    That's fucking despising if you do it just because you're too lazy to get up. If its a medical problem go to the doctor......

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  • 1marcelfilms
    12 years ago

    Same to me

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