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My boyfriend and friends think it's completely insane for me to want to wait til i'm married to have sex. i was brought up being told it's good to wait,but everyone is saying it's weird....someone help please!!! Is it normal to want to wait?
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Don't be a trashy slut with a kid like 95% of these girls
I hate you whores
it is normal to want to wait
and its very very great that in this day and age your not peer presherd into it :)
too meny people in this world just have sex willy nilly
but YOU do what YOU want to do
at the end of the day its your life and your body
and i'm not one to talk because i have had sex
but if you have the love and connexsion with your husband you will have good sex :)
i think thats great and im a guy (and a virgin to),dont just wait 4 love love doesnt allways last and can be faked, personally i wouldnt want to have sex with a girl whose had sex it would feal getting something used (and what i mean to say isnt as horible as it sounds .... i think lol)
but does he HAVE to be satisfying? isn't more than enough for him to just love her?? i think it's good to wait
It's worth saving it. Physical behavior is like the duct tape you use to bond a relationship together. When you stick it to one thing, it stays strong. But if you get married and you've already been, um, 'sticking your duct tape' on other things, it won't bond you as strongly to the man you really love, when you find him.
That's just my opinion. :) It's totally worth waiting.
it's normal if you want to wait until marriage. I'm 26 and I want to wait until marriage. I feel like it's the right thing to do. Being a virgin rules and don't let anyone talk you out of what you believe in. If you want to wait then wait. I believe being married is better anyway, it's worth waiting.
Wait until your married. I think that's a great plan, especially since it works for you.
No it's not enough for him to just love her. Sex isn't a main part but it's still a part of a relationship. So if you aren't happy in that aspect then you aren't completely happy with him.
I waited for love. But to each their own. If that's what u want then don't listen to what other people say. It is rare though
If your not 18 - Leave and wait. If you are over 18, then.....it's your body. If he can't appreciate your morals then maybe he isn't the one.
If you have convictions, you have convictions. If tit is an idea you got from other people, then when people question it, you question yourself because you don't know why you're doing it.
However, there is no reason to have sex until you meet someone who truly cares about you and you see a future with. Then the two of you will know what to do and when.
it's all personal opinion lady. your boyfriend sounds like he's thinking with the wrong head.
don't let him pressure you into it and if he is chances are he's not interested in you for your personality(if you catch my drift).
Wait until you know he is the one you want to share that special bond with. And it will all pay of. In the long run! I am waiting for sure!
I always thought it was silly, I still do.
I know people's reasons, and some of them and sweet: it'll bond us together, it makes it worthwhile, we're each other's firsts...
But seriously. How can you get into a serious relationship (AND a marriage) without fully knowing someone and testing the waters? If you're holding off, you're oblivious to your partner's ENTIRE sexual side. If you want to hold off from vaginal sex -- fine, but you should know them in the bedroom.
If it's a part of your religion or normal in your community, then you might want to wait. I make that recommendation only because those groups of people are not very tolerant of people who do things differently than them.
If that's not the case, then I would recommend you wait for Love (reciprocated Love). I think waiting until marriage to have sex is a bit lame in modern western culture. Also, just because you have sex, doesn't automatically get you pregnant - unprotected sex can, so make sure you always use a condom. ;)
If you are under 18, try talking to your parents about it, or even a counselor.
you should try it before getting married... wat if he dosent satisfy uuu ???