Is it normal for me to like three guys?

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Guy one.
He has almost every class with me, he's really goofy and funny. He actually sometimes seems to take everything as a joke.

Guy 2.
He's nice to me, but he's a friend of two of my ex boyfriends. If I pursue anything, they'll just tell him to dump me.

Guy 3.
I've liked him for a long time, he's an old friend of mine, but we don't talk often. ALL of my friends liked him, and half of them have already dated him at some point. It didn't end well, and I know it would just end up heartbreaking for me, but he gives me butterflies, and I miss hanging out with him.

So, is it normal to like all of them? I would rather narrow it down, so who SHOULD I like? Who should I pursue? Please help.

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Comments ( 13 )
  • DanB
    13 years ago

    Crushing and genuinely liking someone is different. It's normal to crush on a bunch of people but talking to all 3 in a more then friends way is gonna blow up pretty quick

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  • themeekmortician
    7 years ago

    I think it's normal, and never be afraid of polyamory. I have two partners, and we all love each other, going on year three of our relationship.
    It takes a lot of communication, and everyone has to consent.
    Or, you can make a choice, and see if they like you back.

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  • alv1592
    13 years ago

    it's normal as long as you're not trying to date all of them at the same time. narrow it down to who you like the most personality-wise. good luck to you.

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  • Blowjobqueen
    13 years ago

    I think it is totaly normal to like more than 3 guys at a time

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      I don't think I should trust that notion, judging by your name

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    • spacemonkeys21
      13 years ago

      lol what the heck is wrong with this girl, u say to guys who have more then one girlfriend that they go to hell and that their the worst thing in the world and u hate them but ur telling this girl its okay to like more then 3 girls, get it straight in ur head before u give advice blowjob queen lol foreals slu movements

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    Go with guy NUMBER 1

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  • MercedesBenz
    13 years ago

    Stay friends with all three and wait for a better guy. If you are having problems choosing, then none truly hold the key to your heart. Corny, I know, but if you're only half-interested, then it is a waste of all involved. Wait until you meet someone who you don't have to contemplate your feelings on, then just go with it: no questions asked.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Guy two is out.

    Guy one is funny but can you really base a relationship on humor?

    Guy three sounds the most stable. Pursue him.

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      I just worry, even if he did like me back, my friends would hate me. Eventually he would just break my heart like he did to them, but I can't get him off my mind.

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      • [Old Memory]
        13 years ago

        In the end you have to do what's right for you. Can you imagine being an 80 year old woman and giving up on the love of your life for friends you haven't talked to in 50 years? It's silly.

        "He'll just break my heart."

        Maybe. Maybe not. There's risk in everything so don't stop yourself from trying just because it might fail. By that same logic I shouldn't get in my car and drive anywhere because I might fail and get in a car crash.

        Jump! Take the leap and don't look back. What's the downside to losing your fears?

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  • purplemonkeys
    13 years ago

    Guy three sounds nice

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  • DannyKanes
    13 years ago

    Pajamas!

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