Is it normal for me to like a girl even though i am a straight girl?

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Long story short; I didn't want to go to the gym so I decided the only way I could get exercise is by teaching myself how to dance. Searched the internet and discovered this dancer/choreographer. I fell in love with her (I'm a girl). The whole UN-normal thing about this "love-affair" is I don't personally know her and she doesn't know me. So, not only am I a groupie but I'm probably considered a stalker. I follow her on twitter. I visit her fan page on facebook. Watch all of her vids on youtube, vimeo and her myspace. I do wierd google searches to try to get more info about her. I don't know/understand why I feel like this about her (I'm a girl). Part of me thought that maybe I just wanted to be like her but no, this obsession is more than just a "I wish I could dance like her". I seriously have thoughts of kissing her but I'M A GIRL. I also believe that if I meet her these feeling are going to go away...meaning, there has been times when I've fanticized about being with a guy and when the opportunity presented itself I really wasn't interested in him. Arrgh! I want this obsession to be over with...! Let me know what you think.

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  • la_la_la_la
    11 years ago

    Hiya,

    If she's famous she probably has some idea. If she wasn't, how would you feel?? Would you still like her?? Probably not. You like her for her talent, she'd be boring otherwise.

    Lots of men like female performers, so I’m sure there must be some women that do too, if you get my drift. You think she's a good dancer, leave it at that.

    See her live if you like, but I don't think visiting her is a good idea -– as it nearly always does with me, something is bound to give how you feel away and she'll be embarrassed and humilated, but nobody can see what you wish could happen. Some things are better left unsaid.

    When she can't perform any more or is 6ft under it won't matter anyway.

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  • lisalyn
    12 years ago

    I want to kiss her but.... Lol. Go for it

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    **sorry but umm it's normal if your bisexual or gay. Because I'm straight and I've had girl obsessions before like with lady gaga and Lea Michele but NEVER had thoughts about kissing them. So it's normal if your bi but if your straight then I would call that not normal.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Pz

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  • kracker
    13 years ago

    go muff diving and find out

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  • Melodicbrush
    13 years ago

    Rofl, I didnt even have to read what you said, the title was enough, by nature all girls are bisexual, nuff said.

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  • Seven
    13 years ago

    It is probably that you are bisexual, however, you can still be"straight" while having a crush on one girl. The whole lesbian thing is a huge turn on for guys, so mabie you are secretly just attracted to her because you think it will make guys like you more, but that seems much to unlikely.

    I would say that, if possibly, you should go visit her. If that isn't possible, then (BRACE YOURSELVES EVERYBODY IT GETS GRAPHIC HERE!!!) go out and buy a sex toy, of a JJ, and test out lesbian sex with it. If you find yourself enjoying it a lot then you are probably a lesbian. If you don't, than this is likely just a single person thing.
    This method isn't perfect, but it should help a bit if you can't go and talk to her. That's all I can say...

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  • sparrowfeed
    13 years ago

    aww that's pretty normal, i think :) at least us girls are willing to admit it. unlike guys, who like other guys but want to keep maintaining their macho image. it's much healthier this way.

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  • mimzah
    13 years ago

    u myt b a lesbo that is just normal ive bn there done that. Try 2 contact her let her know how do u feel abt her.

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  • CreativeThinker
    13 years ago

    O come on girl its simple just go and visit her and do all those nasty lesbian acts, record it and post its link here..... An early action will be appreciated

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    It r a cock 8====3 lol

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    IF U LIKE HER THEN UR NOT STRAIGHT :)))))(((((((((;)))

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  • roxylinds
    13 years ago

    You admire her! It's normal.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Hmm well considering the fact that I'm bi and like girls idk what exactly to say lol. Idk if you honestly have a crush on her I think you just look up to her and like you said want to be like her as far as the fantasies go.... I think everyone has fantasies or thoughts about doing things they most likely wouldnt do. Of course if you feel you actually do like girls there is absolutely nothing wrong with that its just something you know deep inside thats youve always known.

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