Is it normal for me to have no sex drive?

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Is it normal for me to have no sex drive? I love making out with guys or girls, but I really have no desire to go further. I've let "lovers" feel me up and I've sent and received pictures, but I have no urges and don't get horny. I mean, if I'm attracted to someone I will want to make out with them, but that's it. I'm a girl and don't really like having a boyfriend/girlfriend or any long term commitments. Is it normal?

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  • dirtybirdy
    10 years ago

    Soooo you're stuck in neutral?

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    • blink719
      10 years ago

      Lol I suppose.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    10 years ago

    You are probably asexual, which is the lack of sexual attraction to anyone or a low/ absent interest in sexual activity. There is a myth that this only appears in people who have been molested, this is not always true, some people are just born asexual.
    Asexuality is uncommon, a study in 2004 predicted that about 1% of the population identify as asexual, however that doesn't mean it's a bad thing or something that needs to be (or can be) fixed.

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    • blink719
      10 years ago

      Yeah I've never been molested or anything like that…thank you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Asexual.

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    • quentari
      10 years ago

      that would be my guess

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      • Zooster
        10 years ago

        I was thinking the same thing

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Yes, I've heard of plenty of people that go through that.

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  • sleepingbeauty
    10 years ago

    I genuinely believe you haven't met the person who turns you on yet. Possibly you may be asexual, but I doubt that. Not everyone is sexually aroused by everyone or anyone that touches them. Some people need the right person at the right time and then its fireworks!

    Just be yourself and be patient :-)

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  • NobodyCares
    10 years ago

    If you want to have some drive, I've heard chewing ice gives you more of a drive.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Actually, it is normal.

    You don't need to get horny. Be yourself.

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  • Seustewart
    10 years ago

    It's because your partner doesn't know what he/she is doing. Call me, I'll show you and leave you wanting more. I guarantee it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Meh. I doubt you have no sex drive. If so, then there really would be no point to send "pics" of that nature to people.

    Maybe you have less of a sex drive, but I wouldn't say depleted of it.

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    • blink719
      10 years ago

      I don't; I've sent pictures because people I was fond of asked or sent them to me and I am not ashamed of my body. I have no urge or desire.

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    I definitely believe it is not normal, but I have a very close girl friend who is that way. She has never had a sexual fantasy and has never desired anyone (she doesn't get "hot") and has no desire to have sex with either sex.
    She does enjoy sex when she is having it, "it feels good", but she does not come. None of her erogenous zones work, at all.
    I believe she was badly molested at a very young age, but she has no memories of it.
    She is missing so much pleasure and wonder, but I have no idea of how to help her.

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    • quentari
      10 years ago

      She might be asexual. Some people just don't have a desire for sex, some people have anorgasmia where they literally can't orgasm.

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    • blink719
      10 years ago

      Yeah that's exactly how I feel.
      And I've never had sex so I wouldn't know, but I really don't even want to… I just think I would be there like when is this going to be over…
      I kind of see the whole thing where guys use it as a release as kind of gross in my opinion, and sex is portrayed as dirty like porn and the such I don't look at.
      And aw I'm sorry for her :/

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    • hitchman
      10 years ago

      I drive to the gas station every day,sometimes 3 to 4 times a day out of mere boredom hopeing something exciting might happen...wich it never does lol I always buy a monster and be on my merry way but I waste so much gas but yet I can't seem to stop. Ill go home start getting bored and before I know it I'm driving back. Is it normal to go to the gas station this much.

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      • thegypsysailor
        10 years ago

        Try walking. Your "something exciting might happen" would be easier. You are kinda in a cocoon in a car, isolated/isolated from the world.
        But, you know, if you are really so bored, why don't you drive to the nearest homeless or animal shelter and volunteer your time? I'd bet that "something exciting might happen" is more likely than at the gas station or at home!

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