Is it normal for me to have issues with girls because of my father?

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When I was 5 the person I looked up to and trusted was my father and I thought he would never let me down. Well he did, he turned out to be a sociopath(he doesn't kill people) and I haven't seen him since I was 6. I now find it hard to have a relationship with a girl or even try to make a move. I just feel like that I will be rejected and that there is no point in trying. Im not trying to complain I'm just wondering if its Normal?

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  • SATC
    12 years ago

    That's tough but don't give up. There will be times when a girl turns out be a total bitch, just like a guy can be a total ass. Try not be disheartened you will find a girl who is good for you eventually.

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  • unicorncury
    12 years ago

    I'm a girl so I can't give you a apt answer all I can say is that being a girl a father plays an important role in molding a girls future relationship psychology.
    I have a horrible relation with my father. We hate each other to the core and he's abusive and violent. Guess what !
    I end up being in love with a jerk like my father!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    it's normal but u have to try to change this

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  • BoredGuy
    12 years ago

    You only afraid what you let to do so. Don't underestimate the power of will.

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    • I_steal_free_bread
      12 years ago

      50% POWER, 40% SKILL, 10% PLEASURE IN THE POWER OF WILL

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  • bigbirtha
    12 years ago

    It is completly normal not to love women. You loved your dad so much when you were young because deep down inside your body, you had a yerning for the male touch. Go with those feelings.

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  • Oli
    12 years ago

    Don't give up hun. There will be a girl out there that will accept how you are, and not care.
    I would suggest talking to someone, just to try and get help with it, because it seems like it's really bugging you.

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