Is it normal for me to hate myself for loving someone?

Is it normal for me to hate myself for loving someone I know will hurt me? Its like a zit you keep scratching at till it bleeds. I swear I can't stand heartache but every time I get someone and I fall in love with them I end up getting devastated.

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Based on 44 votes (39 yes)
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Comments ( 7 )
  • Fluff

    Don't mourn or beat yourself up over the past, move on and learn from your previous mistakes.

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  • stayzz0

    As long ad you can get back up after you fall on the ground, love is incredible.

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  • alazyfool

    yeah, don't worry, i know if this is a girl, you may not take my advice as legit cause i'm a guy, but see, i gone through it every single time after this one girl who broke my heart (see my history on this site if you want.) hell, i'm two weeks in and i'm still beating myself up about getting into this relationship even though i'm really into this girl. i mean, when someone's hurt you, you really tend to start worrying a lot about these things. so best of luck, dude(tte), many well wishes for your happiness on my behalf.

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  • badboy82

    im not sure here but i think a proper quote might fit here?............."The only consistent feature in all of your dissatisfying relationships is you."

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  • it's_all_too_much

    Yeah I think it's normal, I do the same damn thing but I'm so bad that it makes me afraid of trying relationships at all now cause I'm afraid to start something that never seems to get anywhere. Try not to let it get to that point, I should take my own advice but alas.

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  • Spacemonkey_ufo

    I'm trying to just go on with my life....I think I just lost my current girlfriend as well. LOVELY!

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  • randomjelly

    Snap out of it or you will create a self fulfilling prophecy.

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