Is it normal for me to get so worried all the time?

Okay, so, I've been going out with my amazing boyfriend for nearly a year, we are both 17 & tbh, I can see myself with him a few years down the line. We are both relationship people & in love. However, I worry. All the time. If he doesn't text back, if he seems a bit off, if we argue etc. I read way too far into things. We don't text & talk 24/7, he says that he prefers to wait till I'm home from school & talk to me on the computer, he dropped out of his course because he didn't like it, anyway, he says that because he thinks it's better to have something to talk about when we do get chance too, like asking eachother how our days were. Is it okay to not talk to your boyfriend ALL THE TIME? & also, we have wee arguments because I'm really stupid & worry about things that aren't even there, like today, he was playing a game on the computer & I was chatting to him, he seemed a bit off & I automatically worried that he didn't want to talk to me, when I know it's the complete opposite & I try to tell myself this all the time. Also, I've been quite down lately, due to personal reasons & sometimes I get frustrated & take it out on him, accidentally of course & we have a wee argument, which I then feel terrible for an apologise for continuously for days after, for some reason hen he says that everything is okay but I still worry that it's not. Please help ): I worry all the time when I don't need too D: he says he's never going to give up on me, but I can't keep feeling like this, but I can't lose him.. He does nothing wrong, it's all in my head, please help ):

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  • joybird

    You've got to grow up and realise that men aren't the same as women, they don't talk incessantly!! They are simple creatures who like their home comforts and their little hobbies - so don't read too much into it.

    Chill out coz if you really are such hard work, it's going to get very boring for him in the next couple of years.

    Remember this ~
    "Nothing matters much, and very little matters at all."

    Now convince yourself I'm right and start laughing, be fun to be with! He doesn't need another mother, anxious about every little thing he does.

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    • ClezChloe

      Thank you, I talked to him today. He told me he loves me & that I just need to relax, he's right. I just hate not getting to see him, but I guess its healthy not to see eachother constantly..
      Absence makes the heart grow fonder as they say (:

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  • abominus566

    well, a relationship is partly about trust, i have a gf and shes the same way i just assure her that nothing is going to happen and its okay. but if he really likes you which i think he does if he is with you,dont worry for the reason that worriing all the time can cause troubles you do not want trust me.

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    • ClezChloe

      Thank you, yeah, he tells me he loves me & that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, I just get so stupid sometimes.

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      • abominus566

        your not stupid, its normal to worry,just try not to worry too much. thats the key

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        • ClezChloe

          Thank you (: he just takes on a lot of work shifts & all & I get it into my head that he doesn't want to spend time with me, when hes doing it to get more money so that he CAN spend time with me & earn money to be able to take me places.. I guess I just need to train my brain into thinking differently lol

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          • abominus566

            thats the way to do it, see your getting better already just by, thinking that.:)

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