Is it normal for me to get so angry

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I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now, and things are beginning to get rocky.
About a week ago, he told me he wanted us to be the only ones in the relationship. He didn't want anything else. He wanted me all to his self. A week later, he puts off hanging out with me to go out with his friends. He makes jokes telling me he can't see me because hes going out with friends (when we have already made plans), then when I get angry he tells me to stop being a bitch and he will see me after. How should I handle this.

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    Well, the way I see it you have got three choices. You can continue to live the way you are with this asshole, and continue to be miserable, that's number one. Choice number two, you can go out out with your own friends whenever you damn well please, because you know what they say about that goose, and that gander. Finally, there is choice number three, you can cut your losses, and leave this guy, because you feel he's not treating you well, and you are gonna move on to some greener pastures.

    He's just one stupid guy, you have got your whole life ahead of you, so I think you ought to move on with your life, girl. I'm sure he ain't all that.

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  • JD777
    5 years ago

    The way you describe him makes me see a big red flag. He wants a one way street and maybe too much control. But don’t get angry. Whoever loses their temper first loses. Be cool, and tell him what you think. If he doesn’t come around, like RoseIsabella says, you might want to cut your loses and get out before you waste more time with him.

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  • paramore93
    5 years ago

    I'd tell him he can grow up and pull himself together or you'll leave and find somebody worth spending your life with.

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  • kelili
    5 years ago

    It's difficult to judge a whole relationship based on a post.

    You know sometimes I tell my husband that I want him all for myself but what I don't mean that he can't hang out with his friends or whatever. That's just me trying to be romantic [that post really made me re-think about things I say but don't really mean). He goes out wherever and with whoever he wants. That's not an issue between us and I do same.

    You should talk to him and tell him what you understood when he told you that he wanted the relationship to be just about the two of you.

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  • leggs91200
    5 years ago

    This crap is gonna sound facebookey and all that social media crap but -

    Never make someone a priority in your life when they see you as merely an option.

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