Is it normal for me to feel troubled so easily?

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Hi everyone.

I'm with my current girlfriend for almost 2 months, n we had done so much together, we even met each other parents already. In fact, she spent most of her time with me and my family since she's studying at my town, while I'm working.

I'm 6 years older than her. We love each other very much. She's very sticky to me, and i started to be sticky towards her too cos she's such a fun girlfriend. She will do everything for me, say yes to all my requests and this earn her the award of best girlfriend. She gave me expensive present on xmas, cook for me, and etc.

So last night she dressed in a beautiful dress plus putting make up in her rented room and took some pictures and posted in on facebook. I saw it and it's very lovely so i asked her whether she'll repeat that way of dressing again when she comes over to my house tonight. I thought i'll get a 'yes' answer, i mean how difficult and troublesome can it be? N know what, this is the first few times she never say yes, some more it's not something demanding. She said I'll try instead.

So I felt her unwillingness to actually dress up that way for me to see n i got upset, IS IT NORMAL?

another question, there was once when a guy friend of her posted 'hi long time no see' on her facebook wall, and she commented: 'hi there long time no see, u miss me?' to that guy. I saw it and this troubles me too! IS IT NORMAL?

Last case, she's thinking of going on a vacation without me (with her parents' friends), and meet up with a guy who does modeling photography. She wants him to take model photo of her. This guy had previously taken photo of her during her last visit there. I know there's nothing between them but this troubles me too! IS IT NORMAL?

Am I being sensitive???

thanks guys!

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Yeah relax. What are you expecting? If you don't like what she does, then you don't like who she is. And if that is so, then back off without a bunch of judgments.

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  • insognity
    14 years ago

    You're being too sensitive and jealous, but you DO have a legit reaason, cuz you sound just like my ex bf kinda and I ended up dumping him cuz he got so annoying, although he was a nice guy

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  • Jen118584
    14 years ago

    I think you're being a little too sensitive and jealous. She's a little younger than you and girls like to flirt, especially young girls. I hear so many stories of people who get pissed off by what someone else writes on their gf's/bf's facebook wall. I think it's silly. It's public and if it were anything to worry about they would never have posted it publicly.

    If she's trying to be a model, that's probably why she got all dolled up and then put the pics on facebook. Maybe she is too shy to do it around you, or maybe she didn't feel like wearing a dress all night.

    Relax and be a little more trusting. Being suspicious, jealous and sensitive this early in the relationship can be a real turnoff.

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