Is it normal for me to feel this way?

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I'm tired of being a teenager and still being confused about my sexual attraction. I'm attracted to some men sexually but I don't want a romantic relationship with them, just the thought of that makes me uncomfortable. I wouldn't want anything more than friends and even that idea is starting to be uncomfortable also. I want women too but I'm not as physically attracted to them as I am guys. My attraction between them has been up and down with men dominating (such as me thinking that women were more physically attractive at a time and men were actually distasteful then switching to know preference, and now back to men) and I'm afraid if I had a girlfriend she would leave me if I didn't have the same sexual attraction I do for men. (Even though I've never had a girlfriend or anyone) I just don't get me, I don't have a problem with women, I find them beautiful, nothing about them is disgusting to me. I wouldn't deny having sex with a girl. Just afraid If I couldn't get it up for her...I do want to have sex with women! I just don't understand why my sexual attraction leans towards men when I want women too.

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Based on 41 votes (32 yes)
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  • What'sMyName?
    12 years ago

    I am EXACTLY like you, but with one difference- I've dated a guy. It's gonna take a while to figure things out, I'm still trying to. Don't feel like you have to put a label on yourself yet. Have you talked to anyone about it?

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  • Hmmaybe
    12 years ago

    I have a stronger emotional attraction to men and I fantasise about having a boyfriend more than I do about having a girl friend. However I am deffinately more physicaly attracted to girls. I call myself bi but sexuality is so complex that trying to fit it into 4 categories doesn't work perfectly. (btw I'm a man)

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Hey, it takes a while to figure out. I like both men and women too. I'm more sexually attracted to women, but feel more comfortable dating men. Just do what makes you feel comfortable, analyze your feelings as they come up, and don't worry about trying to label yourself "gay" or "bi" or anything else. That's where the frustration comes in- and not everything is so cut and dry.

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