Is it normal for me to feel like the other gender?

I want to be a female all my life i felt like i was ment to be girl can anybody tell me how to feel in how to be feminine is it normal to feel this

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Based on 271 votes (147 yes)
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  • starkitty

    there's nothing wrong with you...i was born male, but a am entirely female at heart, and i consider myself a girl. if that's who you are, you don't have to hide yourself, anyone who doesn't accept you isn't worth being friends with. and i didn't realize it till 15...it sometimes shows up later too. you're fine.

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  • Yes.. Sometimes I feel like a guy when I'm around other girls..... I want to protect her kind of.. But if u look at my appearance I'm just a girly girl. Wearing high heels and stuff..

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  • wildman8912

    I was born a guy, look like a guy but definately have alot of female in me. I had a bi experience and wow, it felt as natural as can be. Opens up a whole lot more opportunities sexually. Doesn't bother me, I am who I am:)

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  • Pamella

    Being born intersex and no one told me I felt ill at ease every time I thought I was a girl.
    At age 31 I knew I was female and have been living as a femlae since then. I can't have GRS due to a medical illness but I live, work and play as a female.
    I have guys date me and we do get intimate. I am open about my gender.

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  • shade_ilmaendu

    There's nothing wrong like that at all. I'm female, and that's my biological sex. But I Identify as androgynous, because I'm not strongly female or male in terms of mentality. Gender and sex are different, sex is what you are biologically and gender is a mental and social construction. Thus, your gender and your sex can be different :)

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  • Like xXx I'm the male in all relationships and sometimes it gets slightly sad when I want to b a girl, but I'm too protective and jealous of those I know and I find myself thinking quite like a guy most of the time. Sometimes I think what it would b like to physically b a guy and have others know me as a guy although there are many positives to being you as you are now that if you really reflected on, it would make u not want to change who u are

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  • Hmmaybe

    Incorrect gender association. It happens, best course of action may be a sex change.

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  • StarGirl13

    like xXx said, it's normal from time to time. I've had the same thoughts aswell from time to time.
    HOWEVER, if this becomes an uncomfortable and heart-wrenching situation for you, example: feeling disgusted with your body, wanting to be of the girls constantly... There are instances where a male/ female, can be born mentally with one gender and physically with the other gender. Im not saying your a transgender person, but it is a possibility if you are young. If you are over the age of 18 , I would guess you are not because you would know by now. so no worries.

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  • xXxCraigIeroxXx

    I've actually gone through and made an image of the perfect man in my mind. Not one that I want as a boyfriend/father/etc. But one that I would be had I been born male. I've noticed I also end up playing the stereotypical male role in a lot of areas in my relationships (finding Guys who are a lot more emotional than myself, being compassionate while still maintaining a cool exterior.)
    I think it's normal to wonder about being the other gender From time to time

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  • css

    I sure hope you're not my boyfriend!

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  • ur gay

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